I am married. and we have sex all the time but he can never give me an orgasm. and i think that woman turn me on more than males do! I dont want to hurt him but i would like to have an orgasm someday what should i do?
I honestly know how you feel. I was having sex with the same guy for five years and still didn't have one. I thought something was wrong with me too. It doesn't mean the sex isn't good, but it still would be nice to have one though. Try squeezing your vaginal muscles while you are on top. It's also a mind game. You have to concentrate also. Because you are on top, you can move around at your pace so that his penis can stimulate your clitoris. It works for me, and that's the only way that I can get one. Now I am working on having multiples. Wish me luck!!
Have you ever had an orgasm before or is your husband the first you had sex with?
Maybe you should work on your orgasm as well. Try to stimulate your clitoris during sex, or let him do that. That always turns me on all over again when my attention go down.
Get a porn video. If you don’t know how your husband would react if you told him about the girls, get a porn with two girls and don’t say anything to him….I am sure he would also enjoy it. You can always get a third person involved-----I don’t know how open minded you and your husband are.
Does he know about your problem with orgasms? This is quite important actually!
Maybe you should work on your orgasm as well. Try to stimulate your clitoris during sex, or let him do that. That always turns me on all over again when my attention go down.
Get a porn video. If you don’t know how your husband would react if you told him about the girls, get a porn with two girls and don’t say anything to him….I am sure he would also enjoy it. You can always get a third person involved-----I don’t know how open minded you and your husband are.
Does he know about your problem with orgasms? This is quite important actually!
Hi! I was just wondering about the way you are working on the multiples? Have you ever experienced one? Is it all about the pelvic muscles or is there more to it? Thanx
I haven't started my research on multiples, but when I do I will be sure to let you know.
Hey, that would be great! Thanx
I am 29 years of age and I have been dating a man of 42. My question is when we are having sex sometimes his penis will die on me, even riding. Is he going through menapause?
Not necessarily! How long have you been with this man? Has it always been like that or is this something new that is happening to him?
It is so easy for men to be distracted during sex. Just a thought, sound or a word could interrupt them causing them to lose interest. Also, if you put too high demands on him regarding your sex life or if you make any remarks about his performance could make him die on you.
Think about your behavior and your attitude.
He may also suffer from other problems in this point of his life. Maybe you should talk to him and try to work this out.
Is he taking any sort of medications that could have caused temporary erection problems?
It is so easy for men to be distracted during sex. Just a thought, sound or a word could interrupt them causing them to lose interest. Also, if you put too high demands on him regarding your sex life or if you make any remarks about his performance could make him die on you.
Think about your behavior and your attitude.
He may also suffer from other problems in this point of his life. Maybe you should talk to him and try to work this out.
Is he taking any sort of medications that could have caused temporary erection problems?