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So back in May 2017 I was pregnant with my son Gio. I had him June 4, 2017. Well ok i meet this guy through a friend and he came on to me strong . I was very vulnerable so i gave into him. When I was in labor with Gio he forced a relationship and one again i gave in. Yea he acted like the perfect Gentle man until I found out he was cheating then a month later I found out I was pregnant. Now im 26 & 6 months pregnant I caught him cheating again i let my emotions get the best of me and I put my hands on him. So now here i am bout to have my fourth kid no help. I can't stop crying because i dont understand how could I be so stupid to get pregnant or even fall for his bulshit. Now im in a messed up situation. I have no support and I'm doing everything alone. I dont know if i want this kid or not I can't make up my mind. Im stressed, I never had kids back to back my kids are spaced out im so f*****g scared out my mind and I'm hurting. I dont know what to do. I cry everyday every night no job wants to hire me. I feel like my back against the wall. 

I just want to say im so sorry to read your pain. Women go through so much especially while pregnant. It is not easy but i have faith you can get through this. The fact you continued to keep and care for your baby already shows your a good mom, your just like a lot of us who needs support even if it is from a stranger. The positive side to having kids close together and having more than 1 kid is they have someone to grow up with. Kids need siblings. Do what you can and show your children you love them and they will understand as they get older all the hard work you put in to making sure they were if nothing else loved. Talk with welfare or look up some local ways to help there are places and people who want to help but you gotta find them they won't find you. Your in my prayers god bless you and your family.
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