Hello there, my names Hannah and I'm 22 years of age and just found out I'm about a month or so pregnant. I may sound awful but I despise children they annoy me, I have 10 nieces and nephews and I can give them back whenever I want. I've only been married for 4 months and I'm positively terrified. I keep having these mini freak outs or panic attacks. The thought of having a baby terrifies me. I don't really know what to do. I'm no longer in having relations with my husband and keep having little breakdowns around him. I just need to talk to someone who knows what I'm feeling or has gone through it. I know it sounds selfish but I'm not ready to have to take care of another life. I feel bad saying that knowing some women can't even have kids. I should be happy right?
I'm also wondering if horrible cramps are normal? Like I have to catch my breath kind of pain.
Thanks.
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Well I don't think it's really that bad yes it is true people can't have kids sometimes but that doesn't mean you should feel bad for a personal decision although you are pregnant already why didn't you use birth control? You have your choices their is abortion and adoption I'm not really for either but it's like I said it is a personal thing I have known a couple of friends who felt the same way you did but after they heard their baby's heartbeat and everything it changed for them it might not happen for you but just remember it is yorker life's decision it's going to be mainly you and your husband who will have to change things Good luck
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