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I need help.. Im 18 and my gf is going to b 18 too this year. We had sex and i need advise about this. Im lack about the knowledge bout sex Bcs she is my first. Her 1st week of a day after her period we had sex 2nd week we had sex again but i didnt know whether i ejaculated a transparent kind of liquid and i know its not the white segment..but instead its transparent so im wondering is it ok? 3rd week we did again..but we didnt really did sex Bcs i was just inserted my penis in her then..after one second i asked her to stop Bcs i felt afraid. I didnt knw whether i did o did not ejaculated the transparent fluid.. Bcs by the time i remove my penis..its dry and i didnt saw any fluid tht came out from my peer hole... But jz for in case i asked her to take postinor 2 after 1 hour at 2/7/2012 thn second pill on 3/7/2012 after 12 hours of first pill... And now its already 7/7/2012. She didnt felt anything like nausea/dizziness/breast tenderness/big appetite.... She didnt show any signs of this side effect.. Is there anything going to happen? Need an advice here ps: we jz did sex once a week/her last month period is 4/6/2012 and by right her period should come at 29th o so is there anything bad going to happen? Im really scare nw

Anything bad going to happen? What is "anything bad" - getting pregnant? Well, you should've thought about that before you "inserted your d**k in her."

I am CERTAIN you must've heard SOMEWHERE in a sex ed class to use a condom unless you are okay with the possibility of having a baby! Seriously, you can get someone pregnant ANY time you have unprotected sex - it only takes ONE sperm cell and a single ejaculation has MILLIONS of them. So yes, the only advice I give to you know is to go with your girlfriend and get her a pregnancy test and MAKE SURE she's not pregnant and if she isn't, then thank your lucky stars and BE SAFE from then on.


I apologise for being mean to you in this comment, but if you and your girlfriend do not have enough sense to seek the proper education about having safe sex then you should not be having it. Yes, precautions can fail even if used correctly, but for the safety of you and your partner you may want to read up about them a bit more.



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The only way to feel calm in between sex is to prevent anxiety during sex. If you are not sure if it's the right time to be having sex based on the pill or her period, then don't have sex. If it's hard for you to wait, then use a condom or other contraceptive forms. The best way to give yourself piece of mind is to either not have sex, or have sex responsibly. Don't be embarrassed to buy condoms! It's better than the alternative. Also, educate yourself before you have sex the next time. You will feel much more at ease. Most importantly, make sex safe!
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