During intercourse I am not for sure if i am experiencing an orgasm. With my ex it never felt good but I always acted as it did, just so i wouldnt hurt his feelings. But with my current guy, he is alot bigger and turns me on before we have sex, but i dont get off and feel the same way as i do when i masturbate. Is there something wrong with me?
When you masterbate, you are in control. You know exactly what feels the best, how to touch, how much pressure, slow or fast. You have basically gotten used to yourself.
You have got to instruct bf to what you want him to do to you. Are you trying to acheive that internal orgasm when you are having intercourse?
That is a little difficult and it takes practice. You two have to be in total "sync" with each other.
Once he/you finds your G spot, you'll know it for sure.
As far as you not knowing if you are having an orgasm, you're probably not as you would know it if you did.
Let him stimulate you with his hands or his mouth, have your orgasm that way for now. Then work on the other.
There is nothing wrong with you, it's just getting bf to hit it just right.
If this is a new relationship, it will take time for him to figure out what makes you tick, but you have to tell him.
You have got to instruct bf to what you want him to do to you. Are you trying to acheive that internal orgasm when you are having intercourse?
That is a little difficult and it takes practice. You two have to be in total "sync" with each other.
Once he/you finds your G spot, you'll know it for sure.
As far as you not knowing if you are having an orgasm, you're probably not as you would know it if you did.
Let him stimulate you with his hands or his mouth, have your orgasm that way for now. Then work on the other.
There is nothing wrong with you, it's just getting bf to hit it just right.
If this is a new relationship, it will take time for him to figure out what makes you tick, but you have to tell him.