Okay, here's the deal. Im a 24 year old straight male, and I have been going out with this girl I really cherish for a little while now. Her and her roommate (strictly friends with the roommate) are the best thing to come into my life in such a long time, and I just feel so happy. I just feel like I can talk to them about anything and I can truly be myself, and don't have to guard myself inside as I typically do. They have inspired me truly, to be a better person. Not to become one, but just to BE one. I haven't been this happy ever as an adult or teenager.
Anyway, onto the "Sex" part of the story. Well, we haven't actually had sex yet, we just been cuddling and kissing and all that lubby dubby stuff, but for the 1st time last night, she went down on me. I've gotten BJs from a few girls before, but she was easily the best. I felt at ease and it felt so good. The problem? I couldn't get off! She had me going for a while, and it seemed like I was gonna do it, but then it just kinda stopped, even though she was going good with it. In fact, I have never actually gotten off from a Blowjob. I just feel so bad about this, like something might be totally my fault, or it is something that I can't control. I wanted to get off, I wanted to not just tell her I loved it, but to show it, but I couldn't. I felt real awkward for the rest of the night.
FYI, a few things, maybe to get a better answer: I haven't masturbated in about a week or so, and its not like I have a problem getting off or anything, I got hard from the act in particular, and she had me turned on from earlier and its not like she just went into it with me being totally dead down there. It just like, got hard then that was it. I am sexually healthy, I have no conditions or diseases. And Im circumsized, if that makes any difference in this department.
Basically, what should I do? Is there any way I can get this down so I don't have to feel so worried about it and all that? I especially feel bad about this because I've never felt like this about any other girl before and that's why its that much more frustrating. I know how she is and I just know that her pleasing me will please her, and I want to do the same for her.
Anyway, onto the "Sex" part of the story. Well, we haven't actually had sex yet, we just been cuddling and kissing and all that lubby dubby stuff, but for the 1st time last night, she went down on me. I've gotten BJs from a few girls before, but she was easily the best. I felt at ease and it felt so good. The problem? I couldn't get off! She had me going for a while, and it seemed like I was gonna do it, but then it just kinda stopped, even though she was going good with it. In fact, I have never actually gotten off from a Blowjob. I just feel so bad about this, like something might be totally my fault, or it is something that I can't control. I wanted to get off, I wanted to not just tell her I loved it, but to show it, but I couldn't. I felt real awkward for the rest of the night.
FYI, a few things, maybe to get a better answer: I haven't masturbated in about a week or so, and its not like I have a problem getting off or anything, I got hard from the act in particular, and she had me turned on from earlier and its not like she just went into it with me being totally dead down there. It just like, got hard then that was it. I am sexually healthy, I have no conditions or diseases. And Im circumsized, if that makes any difference in this department.
Basically, what should I do? Is there any way I can get this down so I don't have to feel so worried about it and all that? I especially feel bad about this because I've never felt like this about any other girl before and that's why its that much more frustrating. I know how she is and I just know that her pleasing me will please her, and I want to do the same for her.
yeah i have this probelm too and sex is just the same i xcan go at her with full force for aobut 1 anfd half and dont get off
Dont worry us woman we are lot more understanding then you men think .
When me and my bf had are 1st time (sex)we were both so turned on that when we where doing it he couldn't cum!
But I was really understanding we have been together now 5 years and we have sex like 5-8 times a week and there is times where i will dry out or he will not be able to cum...
But thats not offten.
But he is the best man I have ever been with and i wouldn't trade him for the world!
So remember when you are with her remeber to always think of your self as her best lover . :-D
When me and my bf had are 1st time (sex)we were both so turned on that when we where doing it he couldn't cum!
But I was really understanding we have been together now 5 years and we have sex like 5-8 times a week and there is times where i will dry out or he will not be able to cum...
But thats not offten.
But he is the best man I have ever been with and i wouldn't trade him for the world!
So remember when you are with her remeber to always think of your self as her best lover . :-D