I have a problem, it's causing me a lot of stress lately. I think it's because it may be the reason me and my partner aren't having much sex at all.I masturbate wrong.. I know this might sound silly but when I masturbate I don't rub or touch my clit at all. In order to have an orgasm, I squeeze my legs together and rub my clit through my labia majora. I apply pressure to my clit.. and well, thats the only way I can come. I've tried rubbing my clit and/or tried my normal method with my legs at least apart and I can't orgasm. Even when my partner rubs or touches my clit I don't get any pleasure at all. Whats wrong with me?
There's nothing wrong, you've just found the way to masturbate that works for you.
If you are not getting good feelings when he's touching you however, you probably just need to guide him and have him touch you in a way that makes you feel good.
Take time, talk and explore your bodies together.