Have them take some preparation H and slowly (gently) massage it into the area several times a day.
That will help quickly and it will be a problem no more
You'll need to also add hem rid max or another herbal pill which has wicthhazel and psyllium husk on it. The withchazel helps reduce and calm inflammation. You van also try a shot of apple cider vinegar in the morning also helps with internal inflammation. High fiber diet and lots of water is a must. Sitz baths really help after a bowel movement add Epsom salt itll reduce swelling as well with warm water. Hope it gets better if it doesn't seek a physician and get the surgery it sucks but it'll get better it in the end. Reduce your bowel movements to 10 or 15 mins to much time on the pot will cause them to grow more and you dont want that .
Go see a dr. I regret waiting. Dont make my mistake
Sitz bath should be used over a toilet. You really don't need a tub for that. The pan you use is shaped like a wide brimmed hat that is placed under the toilet seat but over toilet bowl. You fill it with warm water and whatever solution you decide to put in it, then just sit on the toilet seat and your bottom will be submerged in the sitz bath. Stay seated for 10-15 mins and dump the remaining water into the toilet. Done
Hope this helps