Hey, I'm 14 years old and I feel a little weird because I thing that I am going to have sex with my boyfriend, or just let him masturbate me at first. Is there anything I must know? And, how should I shave my vagina hair?
if he fingers you, clean hands would be nice. if it is your first time tell him to be easy and only use one at first until you think you can take two. you don't have to shave your vagina hair if you don't want to. if you stay pretty active if helps with the smell to not have a lot of hair. if you are nervous about the smell use a mild soap and water to wash the outside. Do not DOUCHE. you have bacteria in your vagina that keeps it healthy. when you douche you kill all the good bacteria which allows all the bad bacteria to grow and cause infections. you might bleed a little from you vagina but it is normal if it is your first time having sex.
i personally like girls with hair in a triangle shape pointing towards their vagina