Are you male or female?
I used to slip an ice cube into my wife and let her squeeze it out sometimes. It was fun but I don't think it made her cum. She liked doing it until it got too cold.
I found that alternately sticking my penis into a cup of ice water then into hot water would give me a hell of a hard on made masturbation great.
I just learned something new today! Lucky me...
Something for you and hubby to do tonight if you can wait that long.
If he doesn't like it, don't tell him where I live.
Hi Guest, not sure if you are a boy or girl and this does make a bit of a difference to my answer. For girls, it takes time to develop sexual responses. Over time your orgasms will become easier to achieve, more frequent and more pleasurable. This doesn't apply to boys. At first when you start to masturbate you might not feel that much, and you might find it hard to have an orgasm. Set the mood for masturbating with whatever turns you on, low light, candles, music etc. but steer clear of porn. Develop your own fantasies and try not to get reliant on porn for sexual satisfaction. And porn is not an instruction manual. It is not real life, sex is not like that. Explore you body with your hands trying all sorts of touch. Soft, hard, slow fast, rubbing with the whole hand, using just the fingers, tickling, stroking, with panties on or off and touching different parts. Some women like to insert their fingers, some don't. Almost all love to have their clitoris stimulated. Learn what works for you. There is not right or wrong way, just whatever makes you happy. Ice might be nice, but it probably won't make you come by itself. Your hands really should be all you need to give yourself amazing orgasms. But it might take time, patience and lots of exploration to get there. So relax and enjoy the journey, the exploring should be pleasurable too. Sex, including masturbation, isn't just about orgasms, as wonderful as they are. And to clear up a common misconception, most women never squirt if that is something that concerns you. Ejoy