so i have always been pretty shy and i didnt really think there was anything wrong with this.... but then i started to realize that i just didnt have anything to say to people and other people always seem to have tons more energy than me. i really hate it. also sometimes i feel so tired for no reason like last night i got 8hrs of sleep but i was almost too tired to function today. someone please say they feel the same way or give me some advice
Hi Honey! I have a question, IF you won $50 Million tommorrow, would that change your outlook on life?
You are not alone. ;/ I am a teacher and constantly have to speak with students. It's very draining for me, and I look at my job as a challenge because being energetic does not come naturally for me. Sometimes during conversation, it feels like physical torture, my eyes desperately want to close and my brain shut down. At the end of the day I'm exhausted and have no patience to deal with ANYTHING. Even simple things like changing into my room wear feels like a hassle.
My opinion is society places a ton of pressure on us, now more than before. Society requires a cookie cutter personality for success. One who maintains a positive cheery outlook, extroverted, not to mention the ever increasing skill sets and education. Of course there are people who naturally suit this life style, or the lucky few who have dramatically changed their lives through revelation, (sorry but the previous post brings up a good point about 50 million$$ but does not have profound impact on my thinking) but there are many (including myself) who have to force themselves to endure to make ends meet.
Recently I've been thinking more about what's important for me, what do I enjoy, and how I can change my own lifestyle to accommodate that? Good luck to you.
My opinion is society places a ton of pressure on us, now more than before. Society requires a cookie cutter personality for success. One who maintains a positive cheery outlook, extroverted, not to mention the ever increasing skill sets and education. Of course there are people who naturally suit this life style, or the lucky few who have dramatically changed their lives through revelation, (sorry but the previous post brings up a good point about 50 million$$ but does not have profound impact on my thinking) but there are many (including myself) who have to force themselves to endure to make ends meet.
Recently I've been thinking more about what's important for me, what do I enjoy, and how I can change my own lifestyle to accommodate that? Good luck to you.
i feel the same, all the time