Hi, I was in the relationship for 7 years. I loved that girl more than anything in the world. A month ago, I asked her to marry me, and instead of “Yes”, she broke up with me. Since then I wasn’t going out of my flat, I didn’t go to work and I switched off my telephone. This is my first contact since that day. I thought a lot about what happened, and I really want to move on with my life. Can you help?
I am so sorry that you experienced something like that! You definitely have to move on with your life. If you’re able and ready to love, you will find someone who will love you too. I know how a big disappointment looks like, I’ve been there. But it shouldn’t stop you from having a future. You never know what is waiting for you behind the next corner, maybe you’ll meet someone tomorrow, who will make you forget about all bad things. But you will never find out if you don’t move on with your life. I can’t say that time heals all the wounds because I would be lying, but I will tell you that if this experience didn’t kill you, it will surely make you stronger. Move on, and don’t waste any more of your precious time!