This has happened to me. I was the guy with the bigger penis. We were good friends and couple friends. We were visiting at their house and had a few drinks not drunk and one thing led to another and we had couples sex. They were together my wife and me together. If that happens of course you will watch we watched them and they watched us. She had only seen her husbands penis other than porn which is terrible comparison. I am probably a good 2& 1/2 inches bigger than him he was only about 5 inches hard but very big around he looked like a plug I am no slouch at over 5 inches around. He was probably around 6 inches very big. She liked what she saw with me and she told him. He said he would see if I would do anything. Well short story we did get together the hottest sex I've ever had. We probably did it 4 maybe 5 times. She has told me several times I did fulfill a fantasy for her she loved the penetration that she never had felt and we are still all friends and do f**k in front of each other not as much as we did when we were younger and loves watching. The one thing ismy wife never knew it happened and it has been so long she never will. She has no desire switching partners. She said she had a guy like him before us said it was ok, and confessed had one bigger than me and told me it was ok but very happy just f*****g in front of somebody.
First off- don’t ever feel like this is “strange” and that you are weird for having these urges. You are you and the dynamics of your relationship are unique compared to everyone else’s. As long as consenting adults are involved, you “play” safe, and no one is hurt don’t ever let yourself feel judged. The same people who say your sexual preferences are perverse probably think gay sex is strange. It is not, it is different and alien to most but that doesn’t make it wrong.
I would just respect your wife’s wishes. If she doesn’t bring up doing it again don’t make her feel pressured. It’s one thing to be a willing partner in an activity that can bring passion/sensuality to a “partnership”. It is another entirely to feel like you have become and object of pleasure to your partner and nothing more. It may or may not be true, but it can come across this way. Getting her intoxicated again and putting her in that situation again is not a good idea. She may feel totally objectified and acting as an instrument for your pleasure. If she doesn’t say “I want to get drunk and have sex with x” then she most likely does not want to do it.
Your open communication is very imortant to your relationship. Without bringing up sex with other men (you’ve been there) have you asked her what turns her on? Have you asked her about other “taboo” activities? Maybe some quid pro quo will get you to revisit your fantasy again. Maybe indulging her with her own fantasies and giving her desires attention you will find the gratification you are seeking. This will give her some power and the freedom to express herself to you may be very liberating to her. I’m sure it was liberating for you when you expressed your fantasies. It will feel like the partnership that a loving relationship is.
In the event she is shy to bring things up because they don’t compare to your fantasy here are some alternative activities that you can discuss...
Go to a swingers club. Talk to people and have a fun night out. It doesn’t have to involve sex. It’s just a fun night out doing something totally different.
Marijuana can be like truth serum. Smoke a joint, enjoy each others bodies in slow motion, talk about what turns her on. Tell her it doesn’t matter how crazy it may sound because you love her and love hearing her thoughts.
Go to a nude beach. Chances are you’ll be the hottest couple there (ever been to a nude beach?). It will make for good conversation and you will both appreciate each other’s physiques without having sex with other people.
If you are secure enough take her to a male strip show and have a laugh over it. It can be silly and fun and she probably won’t mind the eye candy. The slight jealousy you may feel as she oggles and talks about the hunks may be enough to keep your fantasy alive in your head and give her some safe fun.
Ask her to write a story of what she considers to be the most erotic thing she would ever willingly do and enjoy. It may be tame by your standards but if it gets her off it should get you off. Maybe it involves you and a Mexican female masked wrestler. Silly? Who cares! It’s coming from her and you love her right. Talk about it while you have sex.
Be creative and have fun. This may come full circle and maybe she will eventually want to have sex with other men again, maybe not. Don’t force it.
Have a blast and enjoy finding things that make you both tick.
By the way... when she did have sex with other men did you ever ask her exactly what men turned her on? Were the chosen males ones you chose/approved of or were they men she thought were “hot” and “sexy”. If she truly loves and respects you she will not cheat on you regardless of how physically “superior” the other man is. Don’t play it safe with men you feel will make you look good in comparison. If she likes muscular defined men with six packs and huge members then you may want to indulge that. Emotionally she is likely already attached to you. I would think you would want to make this as physically pleasurable as possible for her. If so you must check your ego at the door if she consents to having this experience again.
In short, I suggest that whatever you do you make it more about her and not just about you. Give her some control and both of you have a great time. Don’t let other’s narrow minded perceptions of what a “normal” relationship is make you feel shame or abnormal.
If might seem like a good thing at the time but how would you feel if she went off having intercourse with you because the other guy is better and gives her more pleasure, things always seem greener on the other side until you get there!
I love watching my wife f**k other men
I have always preferred promiscuous women, as i am a promiscuous man, and enjoy sex. I first realized how much i enjoy sexually open women when i had 2 ladies who were friends and very promiscuous do all the kinky things i enjoy in porn, when they had me and two other guys and we did it in every conceivable position. I loved watching both ladies being douboe stuffed as much as i enjoyed being part of it. Later i was dating a young gal, 18, who i found out was having sex with several other men. I was turned on when i discovered videos and photos she had taken with the other men, and the fact that they never used condoms and came inside her made me proud to have a turned on nasty little promiscuous s*** (i think being a s*** is a good thing fyi, i love the kind of lady who is very sexual and freaky and enjoys multiple partners) as a GF. For weeks since i discovered her secret, i would aim to be with her as soon as possible since she had sex with another guy. I didnt even mind going down on her as the other guys juices leaked out. I played it off like i didnt know any better, because she seemed to enjoy thinking i couldnt tell she was cheating with two to three different guys every day. One day i surprused her at home, when she was with another guy, but told them to keep going, that i enjoyed watching him pound her hard, and told her i was proud of having a s*** GF, and that i loved all the sloppy seconds. She was surprised, then told me she loved watching me lick other guys juice out of her, and how turned on i got when she was just with another man, and she loves how aroused i was watching this guy tear it up. After he came the secons time, she told me to lay on my back, and sat on my face, and while looking at me, and reaching back playing with my penis, told me how she wants me to be there to clean after all the guys she has sex with, and how she loves watching me swallow their cum, and how their big dark thick penises were all so much bigger than mine, and i am not small at all, and how i could go for hours after they stretched her holes.
To this day, i only will be with women who are with other men. I have three married women who have husbands who love to have me be their cuckold male. My fiance and i also have two black men who are extremely well endowed, who rent rooms in our house, and my wife and them are almost always having sex, as well as a few other guys we know. My fiance even loves to make me clean them off, and fluff when we have all 9 of the guys over for gangbang nights. We are planning our wedding, which will have all the groomsmen gangbanging her on the altar, and we have 30 guys lined up for the reception gangbang, and we will be consumating the marriage after they all unload onside her, and i clean her and the guys off, then we will drink all the jizz together, and finally, i will get my brides sloppy worn out loose hole.