ok im not orgasiming during sex and i seriously feel like somethings wrong with me..can someone please help=( :'(
Well, it isn't that easy, if you're a woman. Masturbating helps you to learn exactly which pressures and rhythms you need in order to bring you to orgasm. In particular, you need to explore your own body in order to find out precisely how to stimulate your clitoris. It's important, if you're using masturbation to help learn about orgasm. You should always do it when you're warm, cozy, relaxed and alone. Once you have learned to climax easily, you can then show your partner exactly what you need in order to make you come. Try to build up a vocabulary with your partner that's easy to use. A lot of couples find their sex lives fail simply because they don't have the right language. I hope this will help.
I had the same problem, and because i felt like something was wrong with me i was trying too hard to try and make it happen! its important to relax and not get worked up, if you dont think about it will happen eventually. explore your body and see what does and what doesnt work for you without pressurising yourself into making it happen.