Ok my names Jailynn, i'm 16 and i just lost my virginity last night. i'm absolutely scared. i didn't plan on this happening.
how it happened.
my friend austin and scotty came over so we could go to my friends house, i was in the shower, and austin walked in, he walked out n i texted scotty to have austin come back in to see why he acted like that, but he locked my bathroom door and started stripping,
me: wtf are you doing?
him: getting in
me: your joking right? your not
him: no i'm joking (he's still stripping)
me: wtf
so he got in and it went from there.
he didn't ejaculate, but im afraid that , this being my first time and everything and i don't sh*T bout sex, im asking for advice
i can't tell my mom or she'll freak.
you can't get pregnant if were having sex and he doesn't cum in you right?
im just a really stupid teenager that didn't say no when i could.
but i need advice. please. :-(
how it happened.
my friend austin and scotty came over so we could go to my friends house, i was in the shower, and austin walked in, he walked out n i texted scotty to have austin come back in to see why he acted like that, but he locked my bathroom door and started stripping,
me: wtf are you doing?
him: getting in
me: your joking right? your not
him: no i'm joking (he's still stripping)
me: wtf
so he got in and it went from there.
he didn't ejaculate, but im afraid that , this being my first time and everything and i don't sh*T bout sex, im asking for advice
i can't tell my mom or she'll freak.
you can't get pregnant if were having sex and he doesn't cum in you right?
im just a really stupid teenager that didn't say no when i could.
but i need advice. please. :-(
Pregnancy is always possible. However, since you used a condom, the chances are unlikely that you will get pregnant. I'm sorry to say that only time will tell for certain. You can take a pregnancy test in a couple weeks. If it's negative, you can take another one about a week or two later. Remember that first morning urine is the best.
Don't feel so negatively about yourself about this. You made a mistake and you realize that. That's part of being human. Learn from this experience. You can say no in the future. You're not stupid, you just made a mistake. If you have trouble saying no in certain situations, learn from this experience and teach yourself how to say no. Say affirmations such as, "It's okay to say no. I am empowered. I love and approve of myself. I take care of myself by saying no when I need to. I know when to say no." Say whatever affirmations you need to, just make sure that they're completely positive statements. Be sure to say the affirmations many times every day for a lengthy period of time. This will ensure that they become habitual statements and habitual beliefs. :-)
Don't feel so negatively about yourself about this. You made a mistake and you realize that. That's part of being human. Learn from this experience. You can say no in the future. You're not stupid, you just made a mistake. If you have trouble saying no in certain situations, learn from this experience and teach yourself how to say no. Say affirmations such as, "It's okay to say no. I am empowered. I love and approve of myself. I take care of myself by saying no when I need to. I know when to say no." Say whatever affirmations you need to, just make sure that they're completely positive statements. Be sure to say the affirmations many times every day for a lengthy period of time. This will ensure that they become habitual statements and habitual beliefs. :-)