Most guys by age 14 are producing semen. Has puberty started for you? Do you have hair around your penis? Has your underarm hair started to grow. Puberty comes at different ages so perhaps you are a bit slow.
If you are hurting your penis by dry masturbation, perhaps you need to use some lubrication. That is what most circumised guys do. Lots of different things will work, including soapy water, spit and baby oil.
If you kiss a girl and your penis gets hard, that sounds very normal to me. The lips are erogenous tissue and it is natural to be stimulated by kissing. If you don't want to be stimulated then don't kiss girls.
Hi Guest,
Your body may just not be ready to ejaculate yet. Are you in puberty? Do you have pubic hair? Have you ever had a "wet dream?"
Frequent erections are common early in puberty.
You can use some lube. Saliva works if you can't buy anything. Don't use soap, it will dry out the skin.