WHOA!! Hmm I don't even know where to start. You shouldn't think of yourself in that way at all...seriously. I beat you are beautiful whether you can see it or not you should try to find something that you like about yourself. The blonde thing girl please. I hae mostly guy friends and most of them don't really look at hair color as a make it or break it and a lot of them like brunettes better than blondes for multiple reasons. I still don't have a huge self esteem. I was always ugly, to me, as a child. Here's an example, the way I would see myself. I have huge cheekbones, gigantic rabbit two front teeth, acne, fat (even though im not) hairy, rough hair, I have a birth defect that makes my eyes look asian even though im pasty white, short, high pubic bone, boobs not happy with them, lots of scars, thin eyebrows and eyelashes...the list can go on and on. But in reality, most the men I run into think I'm beautiful. Now that I am older I am able to except the things that I consider faults and actually notice all the things about me that make me unique and beautiful. There is somebody for everyone, it depends on the peson whether they find them or not. Do not think these things about yourself. Instead think of all the things that make you gorgeous. You should put up a picture of yourself and I bet I could find A LOT of pretty things about you. Just accept that everybody is different. The boys that go for the popular girls are not good guys and not good girls. Any good guy would tell you that they would rather have a girl that is unique with great personality traits than a typical barbie. There are mutiple things you can do to get curves (exercises) and to get rid of the cellulite.
PS most people aren't happy with their vagina, I don't like mine. Men don't care about what it looks like it's whats inside lol. Most girls don't have those pron star vaginas....trust me....not to mention you see yourself the most obviously you have had however old you are to analyze your body and critize it. We are always our own worst critic. Cut yourself some slack. No one is perfect. And getting surgery doesn't make you prettier it makes you fake. Own up for who you are and be happy with it. You are who you are, and you are beautiful...regardless of what you may think. When people love you...they don't see your flaws...no matter who much you may. My husband is still oblivious to mine ;)
You literally just described me... It's so odd... I thought I was the only one...
I do not understand this obsession with a ladies girlie bits. I have to say that I prefer a beautiful luscious vulva - the ones that are shaved and just a slit remind me of a pre-pubescent girls. Long labia or a large clit or both give a guy more to play with and oral is awesome.
You have to learn to love yourself - nothing hotter than a confident woman. if any guy gives you grief - he's a loser. Ask yourself this question - would you dis a bloke because his penis was twisted or bent? I'm betting no, so any guy or girl who makes fun of you is an a55hole.
Large labia rule!
i accept for who you are
Almost every explicit picture of the vulva/labia has been re-re-re-re-touched in the photo lab. Having large (or at least what you think would be large) labia [majora/outer & minora/inner --- inner are arousing, outer not so much if at all] is far more common than u might ever think imagine compare or believe. Any boy (or girl) friend u get to know intimately & lovingly ought to be delighted u r so well endowed .... and delighted to love, caress & stimulate u in this (and other departments, such as anal penetration --- the more, the deeper, the higher, the fuller the better and more complete it gets!). Be glad u have this to share & delight with your partner ... & any "jerk" who doesn't appreciate u is someone u r better off without knowing intimately & completely.