Hello,
I have been with my boyfriend 4.5 years. For the past 2 years now we have been having unprotected sex due to my allergic reaction to the pill. He always pulls out but of course we both know there is still a chance of conceiving. We are not trying to get pregnant nor are we trying to ''not'' get pregnant. We would be delighted but sometimes I think I can't be that lucky can I? I am a little worried that I just can't get pregnant. Of course my other worry is that it might be my boyfriend. Is there an easier way we can find out if we are fertile without actually trying to get pregnant?
Thanks for reading!
I have been with my boyfriend 4.5 years. For the past 2 years now we have been having unprotected sex due to my allergic reaction to the pill. He always pulls out but of course we both know there is still a chance of conceiving. We are not trying to get pregnant nor are we trying to ''not'' get pregnant. We would be delighted but sometimes I think I can't be that lucky can I? I am a little worried that I just can't get pregnant. Of course my other worry is that it might be my boyfriend. Is there an easier way we can find out if we are fertile without actually trying to get pregnant?
Thanks for reading!
I'd visit a doctor and just ask the question. Your BF can get a sperminalysis, and you can have hormone levels checked. It's good to know what your situation is for future planning--and certainly if you find you have any fertility obstacles you may decide to start TTC now, rather than waiting until a later date.
I totally agree with what andwhite has posted because it seems to me that you're going to be worried about this until you get a solution to your problems. Fertility issues are difficult to diagnose and it's hard to actually say whether it's yours or his or if it's actually the both of you. Let me know how you guys are doing, okay?
My sister in law married her husband in 1990, they wanted no children for a while. They used no form of birth control, nothing exept withdrawl. In December of 1995 they decided to try for a family. She never got her period that month and along came my nephew. They did the same thing in 01, my second nephew came along. I could not believe that they both had such strong constitutions and avoided pregnancy just by using withdrawl.
So if you two are using this method, it is possible to not get pregnant.
I wanted to share that with you, to rest your mind a bit, but i would follow up with the advice given by the other posters. Sounds like you guys are in perfect sync together.
So if you two are using this method, it is possible to not get pregnant.
I wanted to share that with you, to rest your mind a bit, but i would follow up with the advice given by the other posters. Sounds like you guys are in perfect sync together.
My husband and I have been having sex for two and a half months and haven't used condoms. Why can't I get pregnant?