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Before I start I really don't want anyone to judge me because I had a lot going on at the time. In September I was seeing this guy for a couple of months and we had sex a lot. We never used protection then one day I asked him about who he was seeing he told me he still dealt with the mother of his child. So I ended up getting my period in September I got my period September 25 and the day after my period went off  September 30 I slept with another guy but we used protection October 1st. and the same day I slept with the first guy and we had sex again on the 4th 6th 9th 10th and so on. We never used protection. October 25 came and I didn't get my period and I took a test and found out I was pregnant and the first guy had no doubt it was his til we started getting ultrasounds and my daughter has big lips and the guy I used protection with also has big lips. He started being hesitant and saying he's not sure. Everyone I talk to say it's seems like his baby, but you'll never know without a test. I just want to know how likely it would be to be the other guy I used protection with. 

Also I'm due July 2, 2917
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hello i am kinda in the same boat you are so please update when you know for sure who the father is. because u used protection and it was the day after your period ended it is highly UNLIKELY he is the father. you were having unprotected sex during your fertile days so chances are it is his. there is no way to tell from an ultrasound what your baby will look like when it arrives. although i am sure it is not the 2cd guys baby it doesn't hurt to take a paternity test once the baby arrives you can do it at home and all you need is the baby and one of the potential fathers. since guy 1 seems to have doubts a good way to reassure him is the paternity test and you not showing doubt it is his baby helps. i really hope this helps because i am freaking out too with my own personal situation. i kinda did the same thing you did but both were unprotected and i took plan b after one of them within the first few hours. i am due in july and the dates are so close i am sure it is my bf baby but the fact that plan b is not 100% effective makes me anxious, depressed and scared because i already have a son with my bf and if this baby isn't his he will leave me for sure (which i probably deserve :( ) good luck to you my prayers are with you!
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Exactly but he has doubts and I know what I did was wrong I really want it to be his. Do you wanna exchange numbers or Facebook's to keep in contact?? I hope everything works out for you too as well!

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I do not have any social media. Send me a message on here SoLost111
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send me a message so we can exchange contact info and keep in touch i really don't have anyone else to talk to about this...
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How do I send messages on here?
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You need to sign up, its free, then post a couple times under username to access sending messages.
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Okay I'm going to do it now
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Did you figure it out?
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