Ho hon: It might have been a normal miscarriage and thus you having the slow down etc. BUT I AM worried about the fact that you still might have a etopic pregnancy - which CAN be life threatening. I understand you don't want your family finding out, so go to the nearest Planned Parenthood Center and have them check you out, hopefully they have a ultrasound machine and can detect IF there was a pregnancy and IF there is an etopic pregnancy going on. Because IF there is you WILL need to go to the hospital ASAP. As depending on where the embryo is (IF there is one) then if it is a fallopian tube it could burst and you will be in big trouble. So please get checked out OK? Good luck hon, and please let me know OK?
I think at this point it might be a good idea to see a doctor. I know that it's been awhile since you last posted but have you actually been to a doctor? Can you give us an update on this? Thanks!
Hi froggy, are you still around? I'd like to hear how things are going for you. Can you pop in and let us know how things are going? I'd really appreciate it!! Thanks :-)
Hi, Sorry for some reason I didn't get any notifications when you posted. My period was due yesterday but I have yet to get any PMS symptoms or pregnancy symptoms for that matter. My breasts feel a tiny bit sore which usually happens right before my period. I haven't had any cramping or any more spotting and I've been staying calm all month since the spotting. I've felt completely normal all month. I think I'm going to take a home pregnancy test today so I'll let you know how that turns out
Haha I did it a 3rd time. My reply was posted as a guest but its me :$
Well, I just took a test and it came out negative so I should expect my period any day now right? Oh and if I did have a miscarriage would I be getting my period this month anyways?
Yes you should be expecting your period this month! It CAN take 6 weeks - IF you had a miscarriage! So it should happen soon! How are you doing?
I'm doing pretty good. I'm very relieved that I'm not pregnant with an ectopic pregnancy! I have been a little achy in my pelvic area but I did a lot of walking yesterday so I think it might be from that or from me just noticing every little thing.
Well, today and yesterday my right breast was sore and achy but as of this morning it is just a little sore. I still haven't had my period though and I'm worried that because of stress I can't control (my boyfriend and I broke up) that it will delay it even further. Should I test again or do you think the one I took the day after my period was due is totally accurate (well, as accurate as they can be)?
Hi Froggy! I would really like you to go and get checked out by a doctor! This has been going on too long for you! I would like you to have a blood test - to determine once and for all if you are or aren't pregnant.! I would also like you to have a pelvic ultrasound! Just to make sure that you are NOT experiencing an Etopic Pregnancy! OR that you have a cyst on your ovary - which can actually mimic pregnancy! There's something going on here with you, and lets get to the bottom of it OK? Please let me know how you go on OK? good luck and health honey!
Well, the only problem about the doctor is is that I really don't want to tell my parents about all of this because they would be really mad and my only way to get anywhere was my boyfriend (well now ex boyfriend :'( )because I don't have my license yet and I wont for like 3 months. I'm sure if I really needed it he could give me a ride but I don't know how it would work out. I'm sure my parents would eventually stop being mad at me but I don't know. I'm so afraid.
But I also had a pregnancy scare a few months ago and I was a week late but I then got my period. My breast also got a lot sorer today. I'm just worried that the stress from our break up could be causing me to be late too. I'm just a mess right now. I haven't eaten all day today and I just feel awful :'( :'( :'( :'(
But I also had a pregnancy scare a few months ago and I was a week late but I then got my period. My breast also got a lot sorer today. I'm just worried that the stress from our break up could be causing me to be late too. I'm just a mess right now. I haven't eaten all day today and I just feel awful :'( :'( :'( :'(
AWH! Sweetheart! I understand! Is there are a Planned Parenthood Clinic near you? If so that is completely confidential! And they can do the tests for you too! Stress is a HUGE factor in your reproductive health! Hysterical pregnancy can happen when you are TOTALLY convinced you are pregnant - both from positive and negative thoughts! I don't know if you are pregnant or not honey! That said there IS something going on here! Many women have ovarian cysts, and IF it is that, it is easily explainable to your parents! The longer you leave it honey, the worse it will be. You need to get some counselling and some help from the planned parenthood OK? Phone them tommorrow and find out what to do next! Don't be afraid honey - I know that's easier said than done - IF and I really mean IF you are pregnant, millions upon millions of teenagers from the beginning of time have been pregnant! So of course your parents won't be too happy, but they will help you! But lets find out first OK? And promise me AND yourself NEVER to have unprotected sex EVER again OK?
And really try and take it easy and calm down ok? This will help your period come on! ALL this stress is not good for you honey! Let me know what the planned parenthood says OK? Lots of hugs honey!!
And really try and take it easy and calm down ok? This will help your period come on! ALL this stress is not good for you honey! Let me know what the planned parenthood says OK? Lots of hugs honey!!
Well, today I got some mild cramps and some brown discharge. Last time this happened to me my period came the next day so i have my fingers crossed.
I have a friend who said he would take me to planned parenthood but I'm going on a vacation until monday. Will it be ok if i wait that long? No need to worry I'm definitely done with sex for a long time until i can really deal with the consequences
I have a friend who said he would take me to planned parenthood but I'm going on a vacation until monday. Will it be ok if i wait that long? No need to worry I'm definitely done with sex for a long time until i can really deal with the consequences
HI Froggy, I'm sorry that you're so upset but why do you think that everyone would be mad at you? I'm pretty sure that everyone would just be concerned and supportive, but you know. I suppose at this point if you are leaving until Monday that you should be okay although the sooner the better. When do you go on vacation?
IF your period comes tommorrow = then you are in the clear! and have a good break! IF it doesn't I really want you to go to Planned Parenthood tommorrow! Get if over and done with before going away! This way they can test you and put your mind at ease or get you help, so you know what your facing on vacation. Instead of worrying about it the entire time! This way it's better OK? Let me know what you find out OK? Good luck honey!