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Is it normal for a man to take over during sex and finish himself off by hand?

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Guest

This happens alot and I'm wondering what's going on! I am talking mid-sex he will jump off and say he needs a cigarette! I don't think it's ever crossed his mind whether I'm satisfied or not. There's no love making about it.. He flips me over within a minute of facing me and that's that!! It's so hard to put up with. I don't get any pleasure whatsoever. He's never even touched my nipples which if he asked, would realise is my biggest turn on!! I just feel like a sack of sugar even though I spend ages making my body smooth an tanned only to be let down. What would you say?

lizardqueen420285748

I say that he is all about himself and egotistical as well as narcissistic (only about himself and not caring about others feelings or pleasures or if they have been pleasured). 

How long have you 2 been together?  How long have you put up with this?  Where are you getting your own pleasure from, yourself and toys?  Is it enough, do you not crave more pleasure and attention from a loving, communicative partner?

I know there are better men/partners out there than this 'sack for nothing' (at least that is what he sounds like).  You deserve better and I believe can get better, you never have to settle for second best not when there is better out there that will treat you like the lady you are and give you the pleasure you deserve and crave.

Good luck and hope this helps

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sally

I agree with lizardqueen. He is being a selfish j**k. Is he like that in other ways or just in bed? Have you talked to him about this? If so and it hadn't made any difference then its not going to get any better. Find someone who will make love with you, not just use you for his own pleasure. You deserve better. All the best. and believe me, there is better out there.
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