Me and my boyfriend had sex for the 3rd time & IT STILL didnt go fully in.. Hes average/ bigger than average in size, & Im scared that my cherry is never going to pop because it is so tight. We were both trying really hard to get it fully inside & we even used a lubricated condom, whats going on? we always struggle to get it in, & it hurts a bunch :/, so whats the point of even trying to enjoy sex then.. Is this gonna happen for the rest of my life? i honestly feel like it is impossible & i'm even more embarrassed b/c i try REALLY hard to hold in the pain, but i truly cant.. so its almost impossible every time, & i don't want him to get annoyed of me cause i cant handle it. please help
What's the rush? Take it slow. The first few times of sex is going to be painful, you can never have enough lube during these times.