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I'm actually  going through the same thing my boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months now theres a big age difference between us like 19 yrs or so but anyways he got a vasectomy about 12 years before we even met and we have not used protection ever i had a baby ten months ago so i understand im still extremely fertile but also given the fact im extremely fertile either way but i got my last period on dec7th 2011  and its not jan 15th and still nothing i just had my twenty third birthday and im getting kinda worried cuz im the most loyal female you would ever find and im concerned that if i were to be pregnant he would leave me purely because he doesnt believe it is possible , now i love my boyfriend dearly but he can be really nieve at times i guess you can say a mr knowitall. now thebody can heal it self right my coworker/long time friend has told me storys about ppl getting pregnant after there spouse getting a vasectomy but can it really be true i will be going to the drs this friday for my annual check up im gunna deal with it then if u can help be answer this question please let me no anything u might know

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I will find out later today when I go for my doctor's appointment. I have very little symptoms with the exception of the missing period. Mine had his vasectomy 10 years ago before we met. I doubt very seriously that I am because the success rate for these surgeries are very high.
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you are not crazy. my husband and his ex wife was the same way im 25 and he is 30 and i pray everyday for a miracle
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I am in the same boat...I never wanted kids, ever, I'm 31 years old, my husband is 36.  He had a vasectomy when he was 30 years old, and I have been fine with that.  Lately, I've been eating like a pig, have had really bad pains and extremely awful heartburn.  I don't think it's possible...I just had my period last week, it wasn't completely normal, and I missed March all together...I'm not really sure how I feel about this, i mean since looking up and reading things, I realize how possible it is, and i'm not scared or upset about it, I'm just sort of waiting it out.  My husband is also that type of guy that wouldn't believe that it's his baby...his ex prior to me cheated and he walked in on it, it's taken us a lot to get to where we are 4 years into our relationship, and I'm terrified that if I were to be pregnant, he'd walk purly on the assumption that it's impossible.

 

I would really liek to know if everyone that has posted on here ever found out if they were even pregnant or just over reacting...

 

Any ideas? 

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Ladies, I have read through all the pages now and have decided to comment. Most of you were just speculating as to whether you were pregnant. Let me tell you my story. I have been with my partner 2 years now - I am 29 and he is roughly 20 years older than me. He had a vasectomy nearly 20 years ago and was with his wife more or less up until the point we got together.  They have 4 children together but she was approx 38 when he got the V. In May last year I had my implant of 3 years removed and didn't bother replacing it because there was no worry about pregnancy. In January this year, 2 and a half weeks after moving in together we found out I was pregnant. I am now 20.5 weeks and everything is going really well. I was so shocked to find out I had to go straight down to the clinic to have an ultrasound. Unfortunately there are a huge amount of doubters out there that say there is no way the baby can be his. But I know I haven't been near another man and never would. We will now have to have his sperm tested, (he was never tested afterwards nor since) and possibly a DNA test when she is born. It's a horrible situation but if it shuts everyone up and lets us live in peace it will be worth it. I can't explain how it has happened but I am so grateful that it has and I cannot wait to meet our baby girl.
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Please use some punctuation in your sentences. It's really hard to read your story without it.
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My ex's mom and dad had a baby nearly ten years after he had a vasectomy. Apparently he was able to produce sperm again after like seven years, i know it is strange, but their little boy is ten now.
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I totally understand. I am in the exact same situation. I pray for a miracle too. I don't think your crazy. Well maybe we both are. :)
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I mess with a guy that said he got a vasectomy 16 years ago when he was married to his ex wife but I started getting symptoms a few weeks ago. Took a home test last sunday and it was light but positive. Told him about it and he said he got a vasectomy in 1996 then tested in 2002 and 2005 for sperm count and was fine. I went to Planned Parenthood and the test was still light but they said I was about 7 weeks pregnant due to the last time I had sex. They couldnt go by last period because Im not regular. I have a doctors apt. Monday evening for a 3rd testing. I guess praying got the best of us. And we are not together. I got a feeling this will make him go get tested for sperm count and request I give him a DNA test. lmbo Which of course will make me mad because I'll feel like he is saying Im just blaming him to keep him in my life. But will let him have the test done because I have only been with him.
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proudmomma2012
if u are pregnant by ur bf and he dont believe its his cause of the surgery get a DNA test
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Oh Im going to let him have one if he denies its his. lol I have no problem proving its his. lol But he is just a sexual partner no bf sadly lol
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lol get ittttt
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rite lmbo lol
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there is a new out there reversal called a mini-incision-reversal, its success rate is 95%, its about 5,000 dollar which my seem steep but no more than ivf ...go to the link all the info is there on this proceedure..

http://www.vasectomyreversals.ca/mini-incision-reversal

hope this help
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I didn't even read all these post, but i know for a fact you can still get pregnant. My brother got a full vasectomy, the one where they cut a portion out and seal the ends, and they grew back togeher and wham, his wife got pregnant. very rare, but possible.
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