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Me too, husbands was 5 years ago and I'm pretty sure I had a miscarriage a few days ago, i've been having my period for over 25 years and have never seen clots like that there were the normal red clots of various sizes and a large white tissue looking thing mixed in (looked like an albino plum had been squeezed of it's juice) i am completely faithful to him so there is no other possible sperm getting near me, haha, is it because i'm getting old? Mid - thirty's. Boobs hurt to wear a bra, nauseous all afternoon, totally irritable (happened with my last 3 pregnancies and bloated feeling but no poundish weight gain but the pants are now snug a bit around middle, low back pain and certain smells made me feel so sick. Could i have been? Or was it a fluke if i was? Do i have to worry about birth control from now on? Someone help me one way or the other (i am a constant worrier) i had even joked the night before to him are you sure your fixing worked? I was wondering at that time if i was pregnant, on the very, very far off chance i could have been. Pls let me know what you think. Thanks so much everyone.

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I have heard having the tubes undone is very painful when the freezing wears off for about a week, my mom had her tubes tied when i was around 6 or 7, then had it reversed when i was 12 1/2. When i was 13 she had my sister, sometimes they tell you it could take years of trying and it may never work to get pregnant again, my mom was pregnant within 6 months and says she didn't have sex for the first 2 months after it had been reversed (we are close and tell eachother everything) so there is hope out there ladies if this is something you want to do.
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Did you have the baby?
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I'm in the same boat as u. My hubby is 50 and I'm 26. He has had his vasectomy for 19 years. I'm over a week later but did a negative test today. I'll be trying again and again and again. I so want my own baby
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Alright ladies, and gents. I'm 23 my bf is 46, I've been married twice (first marriage divorce, second tragic death), he has been married once and has two bio, and raised her two. He had the V 9 years ago after his second. I have had 11 miscarriages to date. He knows I want a baby, I was looking into adopting after my husband died. When we got together I was fine with the V, because I didn't want to lose another baby. (Btw, ladies who have described weird periods after missing, I regret to inform you that is exactly what ALL of my miscarriages were like.) However, I mentioned to him reversal, and he responded with a sperm donor would be cheaper. I feel like I am pregnant, like I have been the other times. I started googling and saw the statistic unlikelihood, but then read this and have hope. He told me that if I did get pregnant he would want a DNA, because his ex cheated. I and my family are praying that I get pregnant and it sticks! Even though, my BF would prefer to be done.

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Vice ectomy, my husband had one done 9yrs ago and I haven't had a period since Dec 3rd 2015, and Jan I had one day of a few 30mins spotted brown, and the Feb I spotted brown, for 30mins, and March is nothing, and my boob's hurt so bad and stay hard all day and been to dry a bunch of times all they did was pee pregnancy tests and came back negative, and so I so a GYN Dr on the July 4th to see what's wrong, do u think I could be pregnant
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I agree l feel the same way
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So mind boggling bothers me everyday esp to see his child..Just not the same or fair at times...He is happy with adopting or donor (I prefer) I am like u already have one so of course you do not get it....How do l come to a happy place???I really need somw help
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Sorry for typo some help....Is what l meant to type...
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I just wish he could relate and be more understanding...Stop smoothing things over...Also l wish he would of saved enough sperm for later for at least two future kids....Smh just neverending....
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Hi, My husband had a vasectomy 10years ago like the cases above. I've been sick (nauseaus with slight stomach cramps, & extreme fatique) for the last 8 days thinking I had a stomach bug. Fed up with it went to the doctor today & found out I was pregnant! So yes it is possible for the procedure to repair itself. I'm thrilled however! :)
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Your post was a few years back, hope things worked out for you.
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wow, i could tell the exact same story...even his last child is 13. I hope you get your miracle baby...if you havent already. I see you wrote this over a year ago.
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I had my tubes tied when I was 28.. It was the best thing ever and did not had any hormonal issues
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I've been with my partner for 15 month before I met him he had a vasectomy he didn't go back for a sperm count I regarly feel sick earache and have sore breasts I done a test and it said not pregnant we were gutted so why do I have sore breasts? When I was pregnant with my youngest my breasts were sore
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