I wonder how many people, if any, ever imagined themselves having sex with the opposite sex parent or even fantasized about joining in, as they masturbated while hearing or watching their parents having sex.
I don't think there would be anything wrong with it, but i would like to have some answer and stories from people who did.
I don't think there would be anything wrong with it, but i would like to have some answer and stories from people who did.
I think it would be really interesting to know what's going on inside their mind when they experience stuff like that.
"I find myself wondering what he must think of his father and I after hearing us essentially reduced to animals. Are we still mummy and daddy? Now that he's seen that other side to us? I have so many mixed emotions about this."
You are seeing this whole thing in a way too much negative light.
Thinking that your son might think poorly of you just because you have sex?
That is definitely something that is not on his mind, don't even think about that.
The sexual side is only a little part of who we are, it's on the everyday life that you should show yourselves as caring, understanding, and loving parents, there's where your son will get his consideration of you.
Sure, right in those moments, as you are in the throes of passion, he too might get overwhelmed by arousal and think about you sexually, just as you and your hubby do to each other, but after you are done, and he's done, you are back at being mommy and daddy to him.
(everyone gets a bit "animalistic" in those moments, it's normal)
Your son may be turned on by his own parents having sex, mostly by his mom (You) i assume, but that doesn't mean that because of it he'd think of you poorly in the day-to-day life.
What your son is most likely going to do, is enjoying hearing his parents having sex, maybe masturbate while you do it, and then being back at being his "normal self" after he's done with it, just as you and your husband do. (Because he also has "that" side, just as we all do)
This is just a phase, far more common that many would ever dare to admit.
He will do so likely for most of his teen years, then he's going to grow out of it, move on, and treasure the memories you provided him, thinking back at them fondly for the rest of his life, simple as that.
Best thing to do here is being accepting of his feelings and just embrace them, rather than face this situation with hostility and privation that may cause on him shame and repression, which could definitely affect negatively his relationship with you, and also have a bad effect on his own self esteem and self confidence.
Just let him have this phase, call it an unspoken arrangement, if you will.
When he gets older, you may even broach the subject with him in a calm and non judgemental way, and openly discuss rules and boundaries.
(You may even gain some additional admiration from him for being the "cool" parents)
"My son's obviously not bothered by it if he keeps wanting to listen in, so why am I?"
See? This is the right mindset here.
You worries might have been justified in case you didn't know if your son could be weirded out, shocked, or disgusted by it, but since you now know that he clearly doesn't mind and he's even turned on by it, that worry has no reason to be anymore.
You shouldn't be outraged that he might be turned on by you, as that means he finds you sexually alluring, and that is a huge compliment coming from a son, how many parents can say the same?
You should be glad that at least he's not grossed out by you like most sons and daughters apparently seem to be by their parents.
(I presume that in most cases it has mostly to do with the parents being physically off-putting than for the mere fact of being their own parents)
Would you really prefer him to think of you as gross over having him finding you hot?
I'd say just embrace it, relax, even try to enjoy it without shame if you can, and let him consume freely his sexual release as you enjoy yours, without holding yourself on out of unnecessary worries.
Being aware, accepting and embracing will finally put your mind at ease and might even enhance your own sexual experiences from then on.
Best wishes.
You are seeing this whole thing in a way too much negative light.
Thinking that your son might think poorly of you just because you have sex?
That is definitely something that is not on his mind, don't even think about that.
The sexual side is only a little part of who we are, it's on the everyday life that you should show yourselves as caring, understanding, and loving parents, there's where your son will get his consideration of you.
Sure, right in those moments, as you are in the throes of passion, he too might get overwhelmed by arousal and think about you sexually, just as you and your hubby do to each other, but after you are done, and he's done, you are back at being mommy and daddy to him.
(everyone gets a bit "animalistic" in those moments, it's normal)
Your son may be turned on by his own parents having sex, mostly by his mom (You) i assume, but that doesn't mean that because of it he'd think of you poorly in the day-to-day life.
What your son is most likely going to do, is enjoying hearing his parents having sex, maybe masturbate while you do it, and then being back at being his "normal self" after he's done with it, just as you and your husband do. (Because he also has "that" side, just as we all do)
This is just a phase, far more common that many would ever dare to admit.
He will do so likely for most of his teen years, then he's going to grow out of it, move on, and treasure the memories you provided him, thinking back at them fondly for the rest of his life, simple as that.
Best thing to do here is being accepting of his feelings and just embrace them, rather than face this situation with hostility and privation that may cause on him shame and repression, which could definitely affect negatively his relationship with you, and also have a bad effect on his own self esteem and self confidence.
Just let him have this phase, call it an unspoken arrangement, if you will.
When he gets older, you may even broach the subject with him in a calm and non judgemental way, and openly discuss rules and boundaries.
(You may even gain some additional admiration from him for being the "cool" parents)
"My son's obviously not bothered by it if he keeps wanting to listen in, so why am I?"
See? This is the right mindset here.
You worries might have been justified in case you didn't know if your son could be weirded out, shocked, or disgusted by it, but since you now know that he clearly doesn't mind and he's even turned on by it, that worry has no reason to be anymore.
You shouldn't be outraged that he might be turned on by you, as that means he finds you sexually alluring, and that is a huge compliment coming from a son, how many parents can say the same?
You should be glad that at least he's not grossed out by you like most sons and daughters apparently seem to be by their parents.
(I presume that in most cases it has mostly to do with the parents being physically off-putting than for the mere fact of being their own parents)
Would you really prefer him to think of you as gross over having him finding you hot?
I'd say just embrace it, relax, even try to enjoy it without shame if you can, and let him consume freely his sexual release as you enjoy yours, without holding yourself on out of unnecessary worries.
Being aware, accepting and embracing will finally put your mind at ease and might even enhance your own sexual experiences from then on.
Best wishes.
There's nothing wrong with fantasies, no need to be ashamed of them.
I find it hard to believe that during those masturbating sessions of yours while listening to your folks going at it, you never imagined yourself being in your dad's place at least once.
I find it hard to believe that during those masturbating sessions of yours while listening to your folks going at it, you never imagined yourself being in your dad's place at least once.
I am a father of a teenage son.
I don't know why some parents here get upset or even angry after discovering that their sons or daughters spy on them or find their sexual relations arousing.
My wife and I always do our best to be quiet and discreet when we have sex, simply out of concern because we don't want to traumatize our son, make him feel uncomfortable or simply disgust him.
If we were certain that our son was not disgusted, but rather aroused by the fact that his parents were having sex, then we would have no problem with letting him listen to us.
It would be extremely flattering to us if our son found us sexually appealing and not revolting as most children might feel about their parents.
Heck, in that case I wouldn't even have a problem with letting him come into our bedroom to watch and "relieve" himself while his mother and I have sex, as long as we talk about it thoroughly first and set clear boundaries.
In any case, it is just a phase that they will move on with as they grow up, so don't overthink things, parents.
I don't know why some parents here get upset or even angry after discovering that their sons or daughters spy on them or find their sexual relations arousing.
My wife and I always do our best to be quiet and discreet when we have sex, simply out of concern because we don't want to traumatize our son, make him feel uncomfortable or simply disgust him.
If we were certain that our son was not disgusted, but rather aroused by the fact that his parents were having sex, then we would have no problem with letting him listen to us.
It would be extremely flattering to us if our son found us sexually appealing and not revolting as most children might feel about their parents.
Heck, in that case I wouldn't even have a problem with letting him come into our bedroom to watch and "relieve" himself while his mother and I have sex, as long as we talk about it thoroughly first and set clear boundaries.
In any case, it is just a phase that they will move on with as they grow up, so don't overthink things, parents.
I sure wish you'd been my dad. The last scenario is exactly what I wanted to do as a teenager.
Yes,if your p***y get aroused ,it's a good sign that you are having good amount of hormones for a healthy sexual life .Enjoy it ,I am reading teens getting turned on and fingering ,I am getting so hard can't stop thinking of you and masterbating.
Really?
So the original title was:
"Is it weird that I get aroused while listening to my parents having sex" ?
I mean, i could understand if they changed it from "fuc-ing" to "having sex", but i don't see what's wrong with writing with the word "sex".
So the original title was:
"Is it weird that I get aroused while listening to my parents having sex" ?
I mean, i could understand if they changed it from "fuc-ing" to "having sex", but i don't see what's wrong with writing with the word "sex".
Same here, so hot!!
I've always fantasized about sex with my mum
I doesn't surprise me.
I find hard to believe those who claim that they get turned on and masturbate hearing or watching their parents having sex, but never thought nor fantasized about having sex themselves with the opposite sex parent, not even in the heat of the moment.
I think that, at least in the heat of the moment, those thoughts are bound to happen at least once, that's probably how most of those people manage to get off while listening or watching.
I find hard to believe those who claim that they get turned on and masturbate hearing or watching their parents having sex, but never thought nor fantasized about having sex themselves with the opposite sex parent, not even in the heat of the moment.
I think that, at least in the heat of the moment, those thoughts are bound to happen at least once, that's probably how most of those people manage to get off while listening or watching.
turned on teenagers being turned on by listening or watching their own parents having sex.
Is it weird? Is it normal?
I think that it mostly has to do with the parents' age and looks, if they are still young, good looking and in decent shape, then i wouldn't find weird for a teenager with raging hormones to be turned on even by his/her own parents having sex.
Nothing both the parents and offspring should overthink or be upset about, the offspring will grow out of it on their own in due time anyway.
Feeling guilty, in the case of the son/daughter, or making him/her feel guilty, in the case of parents will only cause unnecessary emotional distress for both parties, so just let it happen, try to enjoy it, and let it die down on its own.
Is it weird? Is it normal?
I think that it mostly has to do with the parents' age and looks, if they are still young, good looking and in decent shape, then i wouldn't find weird for a teenager with raging hormones to be turned on even by his/her own parents having sex.
Nothing both the parents and offspring should overthink or be upset about, the offspring will grow out of it on their own in due time anyway.
Feeling guilty, in the case of the son/daughter, or making him/her feel guilty, in the case of parents will only cause unnecessary emotional distress for both parties, so just let it happen, try to enjoy it, and let it die down on its own.
turned on teenagers being turned on by listening or watching their own parents having sex.
Is it weird? Is it normal?
I think that it mostly has to do with the parents' age and looks, if they are still young, good looking and in decent shape, then i wouldn't find weird for a teenager with raging hormones to be turned on even by his/her own parents having sex.
Nothing both the parents and offspring should overthink or be upset about, the offspring will grow out of it on their own in due time anyway.
Feeling guilty, in the case of the son/daughter, or making him/her feel guilty, in the case of parents will only cause unnecessary emotional distress for both parties, so just let it happen, try to enjoy it, and let it die down on its own.
Is it weird? Is it normal?
I think that it mostly has to do with the parents' age and looks, if they are still young, good looking and in decent shape, then i wouldn't find weird for a teenager with raging hormones to be turned on even by his/her own parents having sex.
Nothing both the parents and offspring should overthink or be upset about, the offspring will grow out of it on their own in due time anyway.
Feeling guilty, in the case of the son/daughter, or making him/her feel guilty, in the case of parents will only cause unnecessary emotional distress for both parties, so just let it happen, try to enjoy it, and let it die down on its own.
I think there is nothing wrong with that.
Fantasies should have no boundaries as they have no real life consequences, so people shouldn't feel guilty from having them, even if they are kinky like that.
Sexual fantasies and trying to act them out are two separate things.
People should only be judged to how they act in real life.
Fantasies should have no boundaries as they have no real life consequences, so people shouldn't feel guilty from having them, even if they are kinky like that.
Sexual fantasies and trying to act them out are two separate things.
People should only be judged to how they act in real life.
I think there is nothing wrong with that.
Fantasies should have no boundaries as they have no real life consequences, so people shouldn't feel guilty from having them, even if they are kinky like that.
Sexual fantasies and trying to act them out are two separate things.
People should only be judged according to how they act in real life.
Fantasies should have no boundaries as they have no real life consequences, so people shouldn't feel guilty from having them, even if they are kinky like that.
Sexual fantasies and trying to act them out are two separate things.
People should only be judged according to how they act in real life.