many people feel if you pass your 30's you should stop thinking about children or having them:-) , I have recently gotten married my husband has no children and I have 2 from a previous relationship both are older in there teens. We would like to have one child, hope a boy, but many laugh as say I must be crazy:-) , I love children and like this site because I see I am not the only one that feels this wayXD . I know there are risks, but if I was young it can be the same as well. What do you think? I will not try IVF as I can not afford that . We both are taking vit, and eating better and I am watching my weight , any other suggestions??
Hi Deebee,
I say go for it. You've both decided you want a child so why not try.
As long as you are in good health you should have no problems carrying a child. There is an increased risk of birth defects, just so you are aware. Make sure you have good prenatal care.
Good luck!
I say go for it. You've both decided you want a child so why not try.
As long as you are in good health you should have no problems carrying a child. There is an increased risk of birth defects, just so you are aware. Make sure you have good prenatal care.
Good luck!
thanks for that
If you really are positive you want a baby then go ahead and have one. But, as you said, there are risks. If you don't care about them, then go for it but maybe you guys could adopt one. It's safer and you could make a child's life better without putting your well being in danger.