After deviating slightly and taking a tip from a friend, I decided to try out anal masturbation after a day of relaxing.
Now claims be that I should've been able to fit my finger up there, no problem. I lube it up well, both areas; reading on the net and wondering how be be as safe as possible, only to find that it won't even budge past a centimetre (1/3 of a inch), and this is with my pinkie.
So does this mean my plans of getting toys and sorts are shattered? Because I felt the whole ordeal uncomfortable and not enjoyable, but I really do want to try and get there.
Male, Bi and Whatnot if you are wondering.
the more you work at it the bigger things you will be able to put up there. just be patient and have fun ;D