ok so me and my gf had sex. then a week or two later we went and got tested for everything blood and pee.. the ppl at the clinic said we didnt have ne thing..My question is could she have been pregnant and they did not see it at the clinic that early? thanks in advance!
my girlfriend said she had all of those same symptoms when she got pregnant...
it has been 6 weeks total since the time i told u we had sex and she said she went to the doc and they told her she was 6 weeks but i think she might be lying to me can anyone please speculate?
First for mememe,
Yes, it is possible that your girlfriend is pregnant. If and your girlfriend had sex while she was ovulating it is possible that when you went to the clinic together. The urine test used in the doctor's office are similar to those sold over the counter as home pregnancy test. The both measure hCG as days past the hGC becomes more and more present and can be more easily detected. This is why woman can test negative one day and test positive later on in the same week.
In order to determine if she is really pregnant you have to take another pregnancy test, either over the counter or at the clinic. If she is pregnant you both should discuss possible birth plans or birth alternatives. Remember to be sensitive to her feelings, it's no longer all about you, Mr. Mememe.
If she is not pregnant, you both should really practice safe sex by using a condom every and go back to the clinic and make sure your girlfriend begins on both control before you all become sexually active again. Also remember it generally takes one month of constant and correct use for birth control to be effective, that is why condoms are so important!
Best of luck!
She said she had stoped taking birth control. Aweek before we had sex to could it have been out of her system and allowed her to get pregnant?
Hi Steven,
I'm a little confused. Was 6 weeks ago the only time you had sex? Do you know if she has regular periods? Is there any reason why her specific length is important?
I ask this because if a woman has irregular periods, she is more than likely to guess at the date of their LMP (last menstrual period). If your girlfriend went to the doctor to take a pregnancy test, they will use that date to come up with how far along she is.
If you ONLY had sex 6 weeks ago, then she is likely not 6 weeks pregnant, she'd be closed to 8 weeks pregnant depending on when she got her last period and the length of her cycle. But if you all have had sex within the 6 week time frame, especially a month or so ago, it's very likely she could be 6 weeks pregnant. Either way, don't assume she's lying to you.
You could clear this whole thing up by just going to the doctor with her.
Now, about you thinking she's lying, if you can't trust this woman why are you having unprotected sex with her? You've got a whole lot to think about. You need to be wearing a condom and she needs to be on birth control if you wanted to prevent pregnancy.
Best of luck.
I'm a little confused. Was 6 weeks ago the only time you had sex? Do you know if she has regular periods? Is there any reason why her specific length is important?
I ask this because if a woman has irregular periods, she is more than likely to guess at the date of their LMP (last menstrual period). If your girlfriend went to the doctor to take a pregnancy test, they will use that date to come up with how far along she is.
If you ONLY had sex 6 weeks ago, then she is likely not 6 weeks pregnant, she'd be closed to 8 weeks pregnant depending on when she got her last period and the length of her cycle. But if you all have had sex within the 6 week time frame, especially a month or so ago, it's very likely she could be 6 weeks pregnant. Either way, don't assume she's lying to you.
You could clear this whole thing up by just going to the doctor with her.
Now, about you thinking she's lying, if you can't trust this woman why are you having unprotected sex with her? You've got a whole lot to think about. You need to be wearing a condom and she needs to be on birth control if you wanted to prevent pregnancy.
Best of luck.
Thanks for the input everyone. Well she left me a week or so ago and now she is saying she is pregnant but after talking a lily bit more with her I believe her... but she is in Colorado now with her mom so we cannot go to the doc together .... btw I thought she was taking her b control but found out now she harden... also we have been together for about 2years and even tho we r working things out now I am just really worried about the rest of my life ya know I don't wants baby by someone I'm not going to spend the rest of my life with ... I still love her but the both of us r still in college and not ready for kids.
I understand. There is a possibility that she is pregnant and if she is then of course there is a possibility that it could be your child.
There are of course several options that you need to discuss with her. Abortion, Adoption and birth/co-parenting. If you (or she) chooses birth and you suspect that she's been unfaithful because the relationship is so rocky be sure to do a DNA test as soon as the child is born! Do not wait!
You have to treat all subjects, especially abortion and adoption with sensitivity. For most women, we become moms as soon as we find out that we are pregnant. Because she has to carry this baby and will likely be the primary caregiver, the decision is up to her. You don't get much of a say. You may want to confide in your mother, sister or a close female friend on how exactly to approach her gently.
Best of luck in school and in life!
There are of course several options that you need to discuss with her. Abortion, Adoption and birth/co-parenting. If you (or she) chooses birth and you suspect that she's been unfaithful because the relationship is so rocky be sure to do a DNA test as soon as the child is born! Do not wait!
You have to treat all subjects, especially abortion and adoption with sensitivity. For most women, we become moms as soon as we find out that we are pregnant. Because she has to carry this baby and will likely be the primary caregiver, the decision is up to her. You don't get much of a say. You may want to confide in your mother, sister or a close female friend on how exactly to approach her gently.
Best of luck in school and in life!