We have 2 kids, 6 and 4. My husband feels that I am taking too much care of them and that I do not notice him anymore. I was shocked when he told me so but he is actually right. We had no sex for more than a year. I do not want to do anything with him alone without our kids but I am fine if I am alone with them. I never thought about it. Nonetheless I find this normal and I do not understand what he wants from me except to be a good mother.