Me and my fiance just recently tried and it did not work out very well but then we tried again about a week ago and it was amazing. I got a few butt plugs from the store(i started off small as possible then worked my way up) My fiance isn'treally long but he is really thick so I got a dildo to match him as closely as possible and I let him use it on me and me on myself also(this way I wasn't a nervous because he wasn't fully on top of me so I can push in and out as comfortable as possible and It loosened up a lot) My fiance also stimulated my clitoris while doing this which made it a lot more enjoyable and he said 'special things".I found it easier for myself to insert the dildo in butt plug while in "doggy position" but it was more comfortable for actual intercourse while in "missionary"
It does help it kinda numbs it a little bit witch will help her relax but only use a little bit and guys be careful cus it will also numb your member...I didn't find that too fun but some may.
vitamins I am 54 years old and H ave played anally for a lot of years and the most and the best thing I can say is slow down and if it hurts slow down more !!!! Remember Rome want built in 1 day ! It takes time to get comfortable with anal play ! When you start you have to get passed the humiliation of being penetrated and that could take some time but when you have had released your self from the humiliation of the penetration then it will become very very sexual and when you get to that place it becomes very exciting more sexual each time . My advise is slow way down and after or for me it takes about 5 or 6 times to get relaxed and start slow even if you don t or cant climax or orgasm you don t have to but when it gets uncomfortable and continue with other sexually activity . But in a day or maybe two days try it again . But if you really like it then build your self up to the point of getting really hot ! Then it will then come very sexual and you can start to enjoy your sex life !!!
Anal is painful if the one doing the penetration isn't careful. Excrutiating, actually. Things will rip, stuff will bleed and so on. Nothing beats a good foreplay with gentle fingerplay, but the worst thing is when the guy just shoves his fingers up there. He might as well drive a two-by-four up there. I have experienced some serious pain, since the guy was impatient and turned on and he was like 'Yeah, I'll go slow, I swear.' Yeah, right. I don't mind the pain, but not to take the reciever's needs into account is sure to end any chances of future anal sex.
First of all, and by saying this I may be percieved to be a royal b***h, I think people should start to respect each other and oneself more. If you want anal, go for it, but learn to say no if you don't want to. Some don't like it, some hate it and others just have too many bad experiences with it and might actually be a bit scared. Never feel pressured into it, like anything else, and most importantly: respect it when people say NO! If your relationship is dependant on one getting to go 'up there', it's really not a healthy relationship. A helathy sex life is important to any couple, I believe, but if someone feel pressured into having any type of sex in any kind of position or orface, one should really reconsider the relationship. Nobody wins by not enjoying themselves.
Hi Opzydazy! My bf love it &but men dont understand the PAIN we go through as women. However a good women wants to please her man, so i tried different ways. The best 1 was me laying on my side while i inserts him from behind. Once u get the head n u do ur own stokes & then give him the go like "Ok babe f*ck ME"(b sexual u dont wanna sound boring cuz he was already patiently waitin) Using lots of lub will def help as well as being relaxed. some times ther is no time 2 do 4play so u have to b mentally prepared & relax ur body! Once he is in the pain is replaced with pleasure & u can begin movin furniture! :-) Good Luck & njoy....
i m boy and i want anal f**k with my gf but her anal is very tight.so how can i enter my penis in anal her.
listen buddy, just because you are gay and like anal sex with other guys doesn't make it gay for any of us to have anal sex with chicks...
do anal sex while she is sleeping,, i penetrate my gf anal while she is sleeping,,and she didnt feel anything pain because all muscle are relaxed while she is sleeping..
Your anal hole is an exit for s hit not an entrace for a co ck
You need help if you believe this c**p you wrote
Anal sex is an acquired fetish..for that is what it is. Yu need to be interested in anal stimulation before you can be comfortable with re directing the normal sexual parts to include the anus That means fingers up the bum, lube, objects, masturbation. For men you can get off redirected from the penis to the arse.. that's to do with nerve endings and the postrate. Women, it's about fingering the clit while exciting the anal rim, initially then moving to larger objects...carrots, cucumbers, and the rest. A lot is to do with watching the things go in and out of the bum. Video is good so yu can replay this stuff..all very erotic. After a while yu measure diameter and circumference..the things yu push up there get wider, longer and wider. Not sure where yu stop but I guess it depends on the limits of your anatomy. It's generally a weekly thing and yu can be going good and then yu suddenly decide to get the cask of wine, watch some porn..and then get a big slimy up your arse and video the performance for study...Hmmmm. Can yu ever stop the fetish..no..it's a regular occurence. Yu begin to shop for objects that yu think yu could ride..images are part of your dreams..and yu..yu love it. Does it ever stop...no..it doesn't ..it becomes part of your self sex life that will haunt yu to the grave...yeehaaa
u go girl
Anal sex is not for everyone, but trying it is. Some women swear by it--they talk about orgasms more powerful than anything they've experienced during vaginal intercourse! A few tips....
1. Try anal laying on your back if you're a beginner.
2. Make sure that you give yourself a thorough cleaning in the shower. A good way to ensure that you're ready is to actually douche the area!
3. One key to success for anal action is to make sure that you don't go for broke on the first try. Start off with using fingers then switch to an anal toy of your choice.
4. USE LOTS OF LUBE!
As with anything else, practice makes perfect! You need to work up to the main event, and the best way to do that is to take a slow, gradual approach to penis penetration.
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