The novelty as you call it does not wear off. I have had anal since my teens so have most of my girl friends after you do it a few times there is very little discomfort unless the guy is very large. Non of the guys who have screwed me are gay or bi nor is my husband and father of my four kids.I don't suffer from incontinence and did use condoms until I got married I am not stupid. My first time was when I was sixteen and the guy was not huge so there was little pain. I guess if your first time was with John Holmes then you would be torn up a bit but if you use common sense there should be no problem. I love it and we do it whenever we have sex a a finale so there is no risk of getting an vaginal infection. I also douche before with warm water to clean me out first and then with mineral oil to lube things up a bit. Plus we use anal lube. Usually by that time I am ready anyway and very hot and since we do it regulatory my anus open easily as I am not tense. To make it easier for penetration, regular anal I have found is best, as you get more relaxed and your anus opens with little effort the next time and every time it gets easier and the guy can be bigger.
so untrue. this is a total crock!
This isn't true there is no pain, like eveyrone has said you need to just start slow, spend two mins even slowly edging your penis up there like an inch, and from then on it should be fine and very pleasurable, me any my ex gf especially did it a lot,
surgery isn't what they do its plenty of practice and it doesn't take long for a girls ass to be penis hungary lol.
And ive herd the whole gay issue about guys who like anal sex but I don't agree with that either tbh, mens arse make me feel sick but I can lick and sniff a womens after a long day at work and its the best turn on
BIG FAN OF ANAL SEX
the tips use as forplay lick or suck the clit meantime apply oil or cream in&around the as****e gently massage with fingering slowly then graduallsilky take the deep breath while inserting the absorbed penis
Why not? Are you going to give the response that some women give. It is unnatural and painful. Well if that is the way you feel then STOP ASKING HER TO DO IT.
If you do it to yourself you will discover the following.
1 - If you push it up quickly you will have the most painful experience you have ever had.
2 - There are actually 2 sphincters. Once you SLOWLY get past the first one, there is a second one to get passed
3- If you leave the object in without moving it for a few minutes you relax.
4 - Now you can slowly pump it in and out.
Now you know how it feels and what how to do it.
AND it doesn't make you gay. I actually find it pleasurable but no terribly stimulating. My wife goes nuts over anal.
This is coming from a guy who has had sexual relations with both men and women.
There's a lot of stigma around anal and I think a lot of people have probably had bad experiences with guys who just shoved it in and did make the experience unpleasant and painful.
Anal should never hurt when the bottom is relaxed and "welcoming." The top should never just shove it in, but when the bottom is uncomfortable and tense, and clinching their as****e then yeah it's going to feel bad.