Hi i am a 16 yr old girl (:
Ok.. A long time ago I was using a tampon for the first time (so I could go swimming) ..
When I was done swimming I went to take it out but it wouldn't budge.. There was a skin wrapped around it. And I was scared and took to the emergency room by my friends mom (embarrassing!) and then when they moved the skin and got it out I was told to go see a doctor. Three years later I finally went to a doctor and they looked in me and couldnt even get in me cause i was so small in there.(I am a virgin). the doctor told me that my hymen had an unusually small opening ..So I went to go to another doctor (that specializes in this sort of thing) and that doctor took a look inside me and said that I actually had a bridge of skin from one side of me to the other. They called this a Hymenal bridge. So they did a procedure on me where they cut each side of the bridge out. (It hurt really bad) and now I have a boyfriend.. We attempted to have sex a few days ago and it hurt soooo f*****g bad that I started crying.. He was going slow and doing everything perfect and being very careful.. But we kept working on it. And I started to bleed alotttt. But it didn't seem like I broke it.. It still hurt when he tried again.. Even though he did get deeper. He has a normal sized "tool" so I didn't expect it to hurt anymore then anyother person. But it was sooooo painful ! And I did not enjoy it.. I just want to have a good and healthy sex life. Should I get checked down there again before I try again ? What should I do ?
Hi, I'm sorry to hear about your problem you have had, when you tried intercourse with your bf did he make sure you was fully stimulated because if your not fully turned on then your vagina won't be fully relaxed and dilated ready and will feel tight. First time intercourse can be very different for every female some won't experience hardly any pain or discomfort and some feel a lot like you have.
I would say try fingering yourself when your alone and relaxed first with one finger and if that feels ok then try 2 and see if you find it uncomfortable if not then try with your bf and I would also advise you to use a condom and some extra lubricant both on the condom and around the entrance of your vagina and see how it goes.
If you would like more help and advice feel free to repost here :-)
I would say try fingering yourself when your alone and relaxed first with one finger and if that feels ok then try 2 and see if you find it uncomfortable if not then try with your bf and I would also advise you to use a condom and some extra lubricant both on the condom and around the entrance of your vagina and see how it goes.
If you would like more help and advice feel free to repost here :-)
Thank you! I don't think I was that turned on when we tried and realized that I was tense so u controlled my self and tried to relax it didn't help too much.. Anyway .. I am also bleeding when I stand up.. Is it normal to bleed longer? It's been two days since I lost my virginity.
Some girls can bleed upto 4 to 5 days a little and some not at all, it really depends on if the hymen is just a thin membrane or a thick one and I'm guessing you probably had a thick one.
As I said try to get yourself nice and relaxed next time and have plenty of for play and the main thing is don't push just let it happen naturally :-)
As I said try to get yourself nice and relaxed next time and have plenty of for play and the main thing is don't push just let it happen naturally :-)
I have a thin line of skin across the vaginal opening, and just wanted to check if this is normal or if I should get it removed? Any advice?