hi i am 15 years old .... every time i have sex my virgina really hurts and i can not fit my boifriends penise inside me and i have 2 stop ... is there somthing wrong with me and how can i losen up my virgina hole so i can have sex .. please help
try masturbating to loosen i simpliy got my bf to finger me gradually streching it to take more of the penis in
There are some things you can do to make things more comfortable....
Fist of all.. if you are on the tight side... it is easier if you relax... you must be comfortable with your boyfirend and your body to be relaxed.. any tension can make things tighten up.
Lubrication is also helpful... water based is best so there is no interference with a condom.
This kind of thing takes TIME... your body needs to adjust to it's new role as a sexual beeing. Have him take is time and go easy and if you feel tension or resistance relax and have him go slow.
Also positions can also help with things.. like you beeing on top to control the depth and speed.
Remember always use protection both for STDs (condoms) AND for pregnancy.
Fist of all.. if you are on the tight side... it is easier if you relax... you must be comfortable with your boyfirend and your body to be relaxed.. any tension can make things tighten up.
Lubrication is also helpful... water based is best so there is no interference with a condom.
This kind of thing takes TIME... your body needs to adjust to it's new role as a sexual beeing. Have him take is time and go easy and if you feel tension or resistance relax and have him go slow.
Also positions can also help with things.. like you beeing on top to control the depth and speed.
Remember always use protection both for STDs (condoms) AND for pregnancy.
Maybe thats a sighn seeing that your only 15 years old thats your a little to young still to be havin some sex..I know its quit lovely but I think you should just wait untill your a bit older to start havein sex, because your body isn't done growing yet so maybe you should just slow down a bit take abreath and touch yourself for a while.....if it doesn't fit use a lot of lube:D thank you for your time..bye bye for now..lol
i lost my virginity at age 11 and i m 15yrs old now when i started out i was tight and i ve only loosened up a little bit and i ve been with 22 guys and most were over age and they had big ones i still hurt when a guy has sex with me but be safe cause theres a life you need to finish before you get pregnant and dont go without protection because there is stds out there and you may think you trust him not say hes cheating but you may think im stupid or a ho but my second partner gave me chlamidia and i love him and trusted him :cry: and i thought i would never catch one again but i have hpv and before that i had gonorrhea twice now im practicing abstinence :( to prevent spread and possibly getting another one and going infertal so hear my story i was just try to have when it happened
yes theres something wrong its call BEING TO YOUNG DUH SEX IS FOR WHEN YOU GET OLDER YOU WILL RELSIE THAT WE YOU GROW UP YOUR JUST A LITT BABY GIVE YOUR SELF TIME IT TRY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN YOUR GOIN TO HURT YOUR SEFT IF IT DONT FIT JUST WIAT THAT MIGHT BE A SING