Male 18. I can masturbate for like 20-30 minutes if wanted, and oral takes a while too, but when it comes to sex I can't last long, what's the problem?
Hi Uh,
How long do you last? It varies but 5-6 minutes is considered normal.
We're not including foreplay, etc.
I think it's because when you have sex your penis is in the one place it wants to be the most ever. It's just in it's happy place. The vagina was designed to make it feel good. I know oral was never much of a turn on for me so when I found my wife didn't like to do it to me I didn't feel much of a loss anyway. Somehow the inside of my fist never felt as good as the inside of her vagina and I would come almost instantly when my penis entered that little piece of heaven.
So don't feel like there's something wrong with you. I can tell you as time goes by the instant coming sort of recedes.
Remember to focus on foreplay too and also spend some time cuddling or whatever she likes (ask her!) afterwards. As Njoylife says, you'll last longer with time.