Hi, Just need an advise or anyone knows about my situation. Im almost 2 months delayed (last period was Nov. 17, 2012) and still not comin yet (And its my first time to experience 2 months delay of my mens because before its just a week or two of delay. kinda long..) I do feel lower abdomen cramps (like my usual feelings when i will be having my period) and right at this moment I have few blood flows and like a dark jelly( i dont know the term) on my undies. I always feel tired and sometimes fall asleep in the middle of my job. Im really confuse maybe im just pretending that I am pregnant or just a false alarm. My back is aching and sometimes when i touch my boobs its kinda sensitive. I also tried 2 Pregnancy tests and they all came negative. Thats why im really confuse and makes me paranoid. Please do email me. I really need your advice... Ps: I really want to have a baby. Thanks and Godbless..
Seems like you need to better your education first
before creating another life.
Today I went to the ER because I was 6 days late on my period and had black discharge with a foul smell. (Never had this before so I was freaked out!) Took a preg. test and it was negative.
Best thing to do if you are worried (especially since it's your baby maker and hey it's important to make sure it's working right and that you're healthy!) Is to seek medical advice.
My symptoms were hot sweats, headaches, weakness/light headed, black discharge, foul odor, late period, but no abdominal pain or tenderness.
The doctor and nurses took my BP, and did a urine test, as well as a pap and pelvic exam.
after the swabs and poking and proding it's come back that everything is normal and the ER docotr believes it was old blood that has not passed during my last period which of course can be caused by things such as poor diet, change in birth control (switching brands, or stopping/ starting use all together) and just nature in general.
Sometimes it happens he said, where the cervix will not expell all it needs to during a period and what do you get? left overs that have been sitting too long waiting until it's next, clean out so to say. :/ yeah not exactly charming but hey welcome to the human body lol.
Now, there is a test he has sent out to be examined, that couldn't be done at the lab at the ER but from what he saw everything looked fine.
So if you are having issues down there don't hesitate to go to the ER, or your primary care physician! Sure, it may be nothing and you end up feeling super soggy for panicing lol BUT it's your body, it's the part of you that makes babies! So make sure you take good care of it and yourself!
Funny enough while I was there waiting for the doctor to come in, my regular flow started and the black discharged had stopped, but still the doctor did the exam and ran all the tests just to ensure I was safe and healthy because you just never know and because things like cervical cancer have little to no symptoms! So it's always best to get seen by a professional.
I know I will have an outrageous ER bill to pay off BUT the peace of mind knowing my fiance and I will be able to have children someday and knowing every awful and ridiculous thought I had was just me over stressing is well worth the cost.
Also the weakness/light headedness turns out to be that I am anemic! beingthat I have heavy periods too I was put on a medication that will help with my iron.
The pain I experience he believes is inflamation of my prostate which can be normal in women, it explains the pain I have closer to my rear-end, and not my abdomen, which is easily solved by taking motrin or another anti inflamitory.
So if anyone also has those issue then, there ya go :)
Anyways it's all normal, just try not to panic and ALWAYS go to see a health professional, it's worth it!