whenever i sleep with my girlfriend i have long erections almost all night without even having any stimulation and in the morning i usually have pain in my bladder area. How can i fix this problem?
Is this prolonged erection after sex?
no...no sex...
If you are not planning on having sex, try masturbating a few hours before. This might take the sexual urge away and allow you to remain flaccid. There is obviously a desire for sexual activity, and releasing your sexual tension beforehand may help.