Sorry bout that pasted wrong thing.. here's what it was originally suppose to say.
Okay so.. I am 21 years old before I start telling you my problem cause I know people are gona say I'm too young or if I'm school no to everything. Anyways.. My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex this weekend.. It'll be my first time but not his.. Which is good I guess but I'm sorta nervous! cause.. I heard first time hurts ALOT and I cry easily and I will be embarassed to high hell if I cry while he's doing it.. Considering we're doing this cause I want to get pregnant. Does anyone know any good ways for me to loose it without have alot of pain.. or any pain at all. I am NOT using ambesol like I've been told cause thats wrong and sorta sad cause I wat to feel and be felt with our all since its our first time together. Anyways any answers would be great.. I just want to know what to do since I got 2 days to get prepared.. heh.. Thanks.
Okay so.. I am 21 years old before I start telling you my problem cause I know people are gona say I'm too young or if I'm school no to everything. Anyways.. My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex this weekend.. It'll be my first time but not his.. Which is good I guess but I'm sorta nervous! cause.. I heard first time hurts ALOT and I cry easily and I will be embarassed to high hell if I cry while he's doing it.. Considering we're doing this cause I want to get pregnant. Does anyone know any good ways for me to loose it without have alot of pain.. or any pain at all. I am NOT using ambesol like I've been told cause thats wrong and sorta sad cause I wat to feel and be felt with our all since its our first time together. Anyways any answers would be great.. I just want to know what to do since I got 2 days to get prepared.. heh.. Thanks.
lol. well....first off. u're not too young to loose it ... cuz ppl nowadays have sex when they reach their 13(which i'm totally against about) ---anyway ...
i'm 20. still virgin. but i've heard IT HURTS! and sometimes it doesnt.
u're gonna bleed or not.... it depends on the girl.
if u're tight....it may hurt and bleed more. maybe ur bf can finger u before.
just dont be stressed cuz it affects on hurting or not. (i dont know why ... but that's what ppl say lol).
make sure to wash urself after the intercourse and make sure u're both clean after and before it.
good luck! :-)
i'm 20. still virgin. but i've heard IT HURTS! and sometimes it doesnt.
u're gonna bleed or not.... it depends on the girl.
if u're tight....it may hurt and bleed more. maybe ur bf can finger u before.
just dont be stressed cuz it affects on hurting or not. (i dont know why ... but that's what ppl say lol).
make sure to wash urself after the intercourse and make sure u're both clean after and before it.
good luck! :-)
Where did you get the Ambesol idea? Correct me if i am wrong, but isn't Ambesol for toothaches?
First off, you are 21. You are an adult. You are not to young at all.
Secondly, the key to an enjoyable first experience with as little pain as possible is, stimulation and lubrication.
You really have to be turned on, with that comes the lubrication.
Don't let bf just start to want penetration first. Foreplay should be enjoyed way before he does that.
If you are not excreting your own natural lube, or if it is not so much, you can lube up with KY Gel. You can get this at the grocery store in the aisle where the condoms are. Apply this after your forplay if you haven't produced enough on your own.
Be calm, have a glass of wine or two. I am not saying to go into your first experience drunk, i am saying that it will relax you, and you won't be so nervous.
First off, you are 21. You are an adult. You are not to young at all.
Secondly, the key to an enjoyable first experience with as little pain as possible is, stimulation and lubrication.
You really have to be turned on, with that comes the lubrication.
Don't let bf just start to want penetration first. Foreplay should be enjoyed way before he does that.
If you are not excreting your own natural lube, or if it is not so much, you can lube up with KY Gel. You can get this at the grocery store in the aisle where the condoms are. Apply this after your forplay if you haven't produced enough on your own.
Be calm, have a glass of wine or two. I am not saying to go into your first experience drunk, i am saying that it will relax you, and you won't be so nervous.