hi, I am almost 28 and being virgin causes me lot of troubles. It negatively affects my performance,I can't focus on my study anymore. last week I was fooling around with my girlfriend back home, and we where about to have intercourse. I have been with her for 3 months and we decided to loose our virginity to each other. but by the time i started to have the intercourse my mom was entered the room and started shouting and smash thinks around, and my girlfriend cried and finally broke up with me. Therefore loosing my virginity become an issue for me. I can't just stop thinking about loosing it. I am really worried about that especially after what had happend to me with my previous gf. please help :$
If you are 28 you should consider moving out of your mom's house. That might also explain your still being a virgin.
Follow up, Sorry for any misunderstandings, I am not living in my mom's house but i was just kind of visiting her. and when i met my gf we decided to go to my mom's house afterall where my old room is. So far i just don't know, It seems not to be working. I became really worried about my virginity. please any suggestions :$
If it were my first time, I'd need to be comfortable and relaxed and feel a sense of security and privacy. I think your own house or her own house would be a better setting. Don't rush anything, just let it happen. Anxiety is normal the first time and you might even discuss that with her to help ease the tension or help her understand if it does not go perfectly (which it never does) the first time.
umm Hayden, I don't know in your case, however, in some cultures its usual to have your virginity till thirty and over. That being said, it will keep you bothering for the rest of your life, therefore, I would recommend you getting into some kind of legitimate relations since you weren't been in an affair in such a long period of time from your virginity and secondly it will satisfy your desires with someone you won't take accountable your self for like being picked on like in your case with your mother.