Okay well basically, i really want to lose my V, and although i'm not in a relationship with anyone, i am well passed ready and i am getting desperate as i'm nearly 16, and where i come from, if you havent lost it by then its really bad. anywaay, i have been fingered loads of times, but last night i was drunk and had sex with another girl. she fingered me really hard and although she was mostly very sweet and sensitive with me, when she did it hard i couldn't help but scream because of the pain. i think she put in 3 fingers. i am used to being fingered with one or two, but 3 really hurt. i'm now really worried that a penis is going to hurt even more, and i want to be kind of alright at sex the first time, not screaming and crying from pain.
anyway, i've come to the decision that i have to do something so sex won't hurt too much. i was really wet last night but it was still painful. what shall i do? how do i break my hymen safely during mastabation etc. is it worth using objects to stretch myself and break the hymen, before i have sex, or will it ruin the experience because i have kind of already lost my V to an object..?
i'm really stuck here and need advice, i desperatly await reply. thanks so muchh! xxx