So I was having sex with my FWB (friend with benefits) yesterday and everything was awesome. It was my first time having sex and I had been worried that I would just cum instantly. Instead we kept on going for 20 - 25 minutes, she came twice and I was no where near close to cummimg. In the end we had to just stop, without me cumming.
It's not that I dont find her attractive, she's hot as hell. Everything was perfect, but I just couldnt cum.
I'm 17 years old, is this normal? Will it be easier for me to cum next time? I need anwsers, please!
Hi Kris,
Sometimes, in the back of our minds, we have "issues" with ejaculating. It could be a fear of pregnancy or whatever. It really is common the first few times you have sex to either NOT ejaculate or to ejaculate fast.
Are you using birth control? It can help alleviate any anxiety.
The other thing, has she ever seen you ejaculate? If not, masturbate in front of her - to kind of "break the ice" so to speak. That can help too.
Don't focus on this in the future. Just relax and go for it.