Lower Stomach and lower back pain, tiredness, and breast are sore! Is it too early to tell?

Hey Bambie well I just went to my doctor this morning and he did blood test and and a pee test everything came back normal from the pee test and the blood test will be back in 5 days so now I have to go get the ultrasound on March 22nd and go back to the doctor he wants to see me every 2 weeks over the cyst. He thinks it is my left ovary that is causing me pain due to the cyst. I have only gained 3 pounds with this baby not much at all and I will be 16 weeks tomorrow..so I guess I will start gaining when I get up in my months. The baby's heartbeat was good 169 and the measurements have been the same so he said he was going to check the age and size of the baby when I do get the ovary checked out so I guess i will know more on March 22nd. And my blood pressure went to the normal level and I hope it stays like that. But I will keep an eye out on it and make sure I get enought salt intake..just like you said. Thanks so much

And HunnieChild maybe the test was just not right but I will be praying that you are when you go in to see your doctor.

And brittany how are you doing?

Hi Becky! I was having a laugh to myself! Do you tell him what I say?!!!! I was thinking that there you are just a regular patient, then you go in and say "Bambi says she thinks it's my left ovary and she wants you to check it more often, and she thinks I might be having a big baby and wants you to check the size!" XD XD XD XD o.O I had another lady that I was talking to on here, and she would go to her doctor - after writing down what I said - and told her doctor perbatum what I wanted him to do!!!!LOL I bet they think there's a Doctor called Bambi!!!! LOL

Hey Bambie! yeah that is funny...I did tell him about what you said..lol :-D XD XD and he was like WHO!!! And I told him and he just laughed at me and said you must be someone very nice to talk to and to hear about things that I need to know. And he did say you were right ABOUT KEEPING AN EYE ON THE CYST AND TO CHECK ABOUT THE SIZE OF THE BABY. :-) :-) :-) I had a a good laugh now when I was reading what you wrote and you are right!!! I should of told you about the talk with him it was funny when I said bambie. But he was like you must know alot so I was like she does. And I just pictured the other lady you was talking too, her telling her doctor about what you said too...just like me.. XD I think I am going to head to bed and relax my ovary and side is just hurting...but first I am going to do that shower..and maybe the water will make my side and ovary feel better. Thanks so much......and I will probley talk about you at the next visit and I know he will ask!!! :-) :-)

SLOWLY PUTTING HER HAND UP
i also went to my doctor and mentioned you to my doctor hehe

hey bambi... :D :D :) ok so i took a hpt on the 8th like u mentioned. neither positive or neg showed up. that night, i went to the hospital. the doc did a urine test as well. but it was neg. however, the doc says it still could be to early to tell being that this (if i am prego) would be my 1st child. so the doc just diagnosed me as having a virus and he sent me on my way. i knew this was weird cause when i actually have a virus, i do vomit alot and everything comes up.
my symptoms just keep getting worse. i eat like crazy and not long after im done eating, i want to vomit but nothing comes up. i have gained 3lbs and still feel bloated. im still craving the dill pickles except now its not just pickles i want, its anything with dill pickle flavor (sunflower seeds, pringles, etc...) also, last night, i discovered that the smell of bbq sauce makes me sick which is not normal cause i love bbq sauce with anything. but anyway, i really dont know what to do. ive been talking to people on other sites and their saying im not prego being that my last period was feb 28th (this period was very irregular). those people are saying its to early to have the symptoms im having. but what those people dont realize, is that i had a period at the end of jan as well. i was ovulating around the time that my husband and i were TTC (which is feb 11th is when we started TTC and were still trying). so yea, any advice from you will be greatly appreciated. :D :D im so lost..thanks bambi..

Untill I became a "Counsellor" on here I would have stated with 95% certainty that urine tests are dead on! The reason for not bein 100% is that my dearest and oldest friend was pregnant 3 times while on the pill and with a negative urine test!!!!! Since being on here I have come across women that had negative urine and blood tests but "Felt" pregnant! And VOILA they were!

There is a mental/emotional thing called "Hysterical Pregnancy" What this means is that you Want to be or NOT to be pregnant SO badly that your brain actually thinks you are! Another dear friend of mine actually had ALL the symptoms of pregnancy and even her clothes didn't fit! Men have also been known to suffer from "Hysterical Pregnancy" I am NOT saying this is you but keep this in mind!

A good 21 days after unprotected sex/conception is a great time to show! So depending on when you ovulated - as this can change from month to month! And when you had unprotected sex, it COULD be too early! Every woman has different symptoms early on! Some have NONE some KNOW well in advance! I just KNEW with my 1st, and I had ALL the symptoms - with my 2nd - well before the test!

So lets wait another week, in the mean time start taking prenatal vitamins - not just one vitamin OK - and keep having sex (don't wait for ovulation times as they can change) and take the "Making" out of "Making a baby" Because the stress is TOO much for your body! Also after each time raise your buttocks - with a pillow and lay there as long as possible - you need to help your husbands boys out with gravity! I had a friend who stood on her head after!!!! o.O Try and take your mind off of all of this OK? And just know that the planets HAVE to be lined up! It WILL happen honey, IF it hasn't already! Don't give up - most couples without medical problems can take upto a year

Also know this IF everything is lined up and you and your partner have NO problems and you have unprotected sex only %25 of couples have a successful conception each month! and of course if there is any teenagers reading this it is 100%!!! ;-) XD XD

Honestly honey just relax, and what the hell just tell your doctor that "BAMBI SAID!!!" ;-) XD XD XD

Ladies you have made me laugh out loud! I can just see these doctors stating "Hey did you have a patient that said, "Bambi said....?" I couldn't stop laughing with this! XD ;-) ;-)

Hey Bambie..well today was such a crazy day and not relaxing at all...I got into it with hubby's mother this morning so bad that I had to tell our two kids to go to there rooms..which has never happened EVER before...I have been taking her to her doctor's app's 3 to 4 times a week and doing what ever she needs but this morning she really got me fired up that my hubby was so surprised that I said anything to her. >:( :-) We were going to go pick out a dinning room table and she got mad because she wanted to go out and do stuff. Which is just so awful of her since she goes places 3 to 4 times a week. Then she was telling my hubby all kinds of stuff that is was suppost to of said which was such a lie. we both caught her in the lie each time she tired to say something about anything. And she was outside telling my hubby that I did this when she was the one that done it and she didn't think that my hubby tells me pretty much everything..we are just so close in that way..so I have just got the clue and he has too that she is trying to make us fight when we hardly ever do. You would not believe the things she has been saying something like a teenager would do to have her way!!!! she has been staying with us for 3 months over her arm like I said before to you..but I kicked her out..do you think that is wrong of me to do that? But if you knew what she has been doing then you would not blame me..but yet she has the broken arm so she went back to her house today because hubby took her.What do you think?Is it wrong of me to kick her out?But do you remeber in the other post to you about her and not wanting the 3rd baby so that you might remember!And plus with me being pregnant I don't want to be stressed because she is acting like a child and it is like I already have 3 kids and have the 4th on the way.. XD And its like she just wants all the attention and if something not her way she gets really mad and will not talk to you at all. And she was trying to move her arm when the doctor told her not to and she got in swollen up bad..then asked if I would take her to the doctor. I was like no he said for you not to move it and you did so you will have to deal with it. Was it wrong of me to do that ? The doctor asked me if she does stuff to get attention I was like yes always. sorry I don't mean to talk your ear off. But I just don't want to be the bad person for kicking her out and I don't want to be stressed out because it is bad for the baby. And my docotr was like do not get stressed out for anything but it is hard not to over her. And plus I caught her on line talking to some guys having sex on line at our house to some one at 2 :00 at night. And she is 55 years old and then she was like I wasn't doing anything but yet I saw everything even the messages she thought she got ride of. We have caught her doing that 3 other times and then she lies about doing that.

I wish they had a standing up and clapping Emoticon, as I would send that to you! GOOD FOR YOU!!! You handled that fantastically! She has used and abused you for 3 months, it's also upto your husband to put her in her place! She is NOT your blood and doesn't treat you will so she just does NOT matter! Your family matters!!!! Including this baby!

I told my mother in law that if she called again I would call the police and IF she came near my house I would shoot her!!!!!! HONEST! That's how desperate I was! And she knew it! And I'm glad to say my house is mine now for 9 and 1/2 years! She has NEVER and will NEVER step into my home! This is MY house! And also in your situation that is YOUR house and YOUR child that you need to take care of first!

With my frist one, my monther inlaw accidently found out I had him! So she told me husband that she was coming down - this was the woman who said she would kill herself infront of us! And we were SO frightened that my nurse actually warned security and when they came down they were turned away by the security people! I was a MESS! So count yourself looky that this selfish woman hasn't gotten to the point of my psychotic mother inlaw did! So GOOD FOR YOU honey! You KNOW that I will ALWAYS be on your side! She has taken advantage of your kindness for FAR too long! How's baby boy doing! Did he start kicking like crazy after?

When i mentioned you to my doctor he had this weird look and thought for a while and asked where did she study and where is she practising hehe i said She is my Online MUM that has very reasonable advise that most woman who use this site Ask for her opion weather it be pregnancy or Ovarian cysts hehe could be many more advise but from what i had seen so far it is pregnancy and ovarian cysts i had to laugh when he asked me where did you study i also mention to him that You don't live in New Zealand hehe you live in Canada (that is right aye) and when people rattle off some symptoms to you and you give them your honest answer to why they feel this

BAMBI... Ok i got a another question i think i got me a UTI could this be giving me all my signs that i am and that is why i am getting my Negative tests??? or is this what can happen with some woman the get a uti cause there hormones are all over the place cause i still got real funny feeling bb's and my blue veins are are like my bb's are hot and all the veins have come to the top plus all the rest of my symptoms and that is now for 6 weeks may be just a bit more

the reason why i think i got a UTI os cause it is itchy and it smells today really stinky and it has a slight burn when i pee at first when i started getting itchy i was like GREAT i got thrush and i was hunting out my cream to apply well i got distracted and never got around with my many runs to the toilet i noticed i have got discharge that is smelly and it burns when i pass just slighly not stings so much i dont want to go ... with the discharge there isnt any colour to it just make me feel like i haven't showered
wit the smell

What do you think i should do well i have to wait till monday to do any thing really but do you think i have got a UTI and will it be interfering with my HPT Or will it be giving me all the signs of pregnancy and reall i am not??

Hey Bambie...yes I am happy that I did stand up but this morning she came back here crying and doing her teenager thing so we told her that she is not allowed to stay at our home anymore and she was just like ok and we didn't let her in our home just on our pouch and we over heared her talking on the phone to some guy when we did go in our home and she was dogging me bad and my hubby was so mad we mad her leave and told her not to come back. So from your point I did not do wrong and I am so happy that we have our home back and I am making some phone calls for others to take her to her apps because I have been used and treated like c**p so I am proud of myself and my husband. And yes the baby started to me three days ago and I am so excited just too feel it everyday and my hubby is excited as well. I can't wait till we can see the moving so the other kids can feel it.. :-) :-) We still haven't found out what it is but you say a boy and we do too so we are excited to see if we are right!!!! :-D :-D
my lower back has been hurting all this morning but I think I was just stressed because of the mother-in-law..but yeah your mother-in-law sounds way worse I hope she don't get to the point like that but knowing her she will because husband just told her that she can't see the kids right now untill we get all this worked out. So I am happy but the kids are not but we have to do whats best for them and there safety. We did hear her on the phone saying she don't like watching the kids so there it is she don't like watching them but the funny thing is she has not been left alone with the kids but only 1 hour in the past 2 months and before that we haven't left them her before so the its kind of funny to her her say that and mad me so mad. But I guess all is well now hopefully. And thanks for so much and all you have said and done to help. I hope all is well with you and your kids! :-D I am going to try and relax today and play with the kids. Thanks my mom!!! XD

Hey you guy's!!! :-D :-D I'm doing okay Becky just get sleepy more than usual. I go to the Doctor March 23rd! Bambi I haven't told them because I'm not married and I'm young but the main thing is because of the guy age. And I just got a car and my aunt co-signed for me to get it and I'm scared she might take the car back. I'm stressing a little bit it's bothering me so much I just cry every now and then it's hard and especially because the guy I'm pregnant for doesn't want to have anything to do with me he don't call or text or respond to my text or calls he told me he'll be there for the baby but not for me and I don't think it's fair that I have to do this all on my own I didn't make this baby by myself. It's just hard right now for me just to have to do it on my own. I do have all my friends and my mom side of the family so far that's gonna help and support me with everything. My uncle is given me til tomorrow to tell my aunt about me being pregnant. Hunniechild if you can go get a blood test done and they would be able to tell you if you are or not your hormones are probly not strong enough in your urine.Shyness you should do the same as well.

OH Honey! Why did you keep trying to become pregnant then?!!!! I'm sorry to be blunt, but since we started talking to you, you have been trying! How old is this guy? And also honey your aunt has every right to take away the car - as you wont be making the money and be able to do the payments!

Unfortunately honey, even though I know you and we have talked a lot, I am dissapointed that you did it this way! I have counselled HUNDREDS of young girls - like yourself - that INSIST on becoming pregnant then are left holding the bag! You HAVE to have known that the family was NOT going to be happy!! You have to get your prioritites right and thus you not telling anyone, you KNEW the outcome! And to be honest with you Brittany If your aunt was me! I would BLOW my lid!!! And rightly so! NOW with having a baby and your income will go down considerably and HER credit will be in jeopardy - because you didn't have enough to cover it yourself! You will have to live with what you have! And if that means no car then so be it! There are THOUSANDS of young single mothers who have to take the bus! And you are going to have to be one of them! I sure hope this car isn't locked in! That is NOT fair on your aunt! Did this guy KNOW you were trying to get pregnant? If so then he has FULL responsibility and will have to pay for the baby! BUT depending on his character he might just be another dead beat parent! So good luck tommorrow with your Aunt! I think you should step up to the plate and do it now!

He wanted a Baby! He asked me and we talked about it and now he's gone in the wind. I now I can make my payments that's not a problem. I work and have my own place it's just that he knew he wanted this baby not just me and now that I'm pregnant he don't want to be bothered with me!

Hi Brit19tany .. i was a Young Mother single i was 18 when i had my daughter i had sort of the same situation way back then and it is hard and on the pocket cause babies dont come with a weekly payment that you can put off for a week... to keep them warm but once i told my family ..(i didnt want to) they were upsett but they soon got over it and they supported me and my daughter... 2 years later i found me a man who took me and my daughter and we started our own family now i have a family of 2 boys and our daughter and i possibility of another baby on the way but i need some bloods to confirm it

Bambi i dont think i have got a UTI i think it might be a Yeast infection cause i went toilet this morning and there was no sting and i dont have any smelly or discharge

well actually i dont know what it is hehe any way i have the inlaws turning up today so i best go and make my couch sittable i have mountions of washing to go and fold hehe

Have fun on your weekend my is finished so i it s just about mid day so mine is just about over hehe