male 16 attracted to young boys. is that ok if they like it too?

I would really like to help you but this post will most probably be deleted. I see most sites are nowadays so afraid to have anything close to discussions about pedophilia on their sites that they just delete the threads. I don't really blame them, because the world has gone crazy surrounding this subject. But, despite that, I am going to post this and try to help you in all honesty.
Many people are sexually attracted to children and there are very few people who dare to help them.
So lets start with some facts.
1. By law you are not allowed to have sexual contact with a child. Therefor don't do it no matter how difficult it is for you to keep yourself from it.
2. About the fact that you are attracted to the boys and they are attracted to you, no one can do anything about. It just happens and no one that has not experienced it can or may ever blame you for it. They are not in your shoes and therefor have no right to blame you for it. Don't ever think of yourself as unworthy. You have not decided to be like this. No matter how hard you try, your sexual interest in boys will never go away. The challenge is to learn how to live with it and stay in control of it. Like all challenges in life, it can make better people out of us. If anyone ever throws something hateful towards you because of your feelings for boys, know that you are a better person than they are. Spitting on someone that already has a challenge are one of the worst things anyone can ever do! Such people are in serious need of love in their harts.
3. You ask why the boys like your sexual interest in them. There are more than one reason. Some of them are most probably gay and an older boy seems to be a safer person than someone their own age that may tell their friends. Another reason may be because your body has already went through puberty. Your man-features is something they inspire to and through you they see an opportunity to see what it looks like and how it works. Remember that 11 and 12 are normal ages for many boys to start masturbating. For them it is new and exciting. During this stage many of them have a need to share this with friends. During this age it is very common for boys to masturbate with a friend or even in small groups.
4. There are many boylove forums that can help you to cope and understand yourself better. Just be careful because some of them promote child-sex. You are not looking for a porn site, you are looking for emotional support. Thus, choose your support group carefully.

I pray for you on your journey. It is not an easy one.