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Hi all,

As you can tell from the subject, im male and 21 with a very strong sex drive. I get myself off a good extent when I am not able to see my girlfriend. I have had sex with 5 girls, both with and without a condom, but have never been able to cum during sex or oral with any of them. I dont feel much when having sex either, maybe due to a low sensitivity? Im of average size and have had sex with "tighter" women, but i still dont feel very much and thus i am not very stimulated. I am uncircumcised. I can get myself off fine and very quickly if I want, and am not nervous or hesitant about sex or oral in any way.

Is there a reason why I can't orgasm during sex or oral? Is there any reason for having such a low sensitivity that I can barely feel the fact that I am in a girl? Is there anyway to fix it? Thanks alot for your responses in advance!

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Hi I'm in the same boat as you, stamina out the wazoo to say the least. So far I haven't found anything that helps other than real kinky sex. I've even gone as far to get a prince Albert. Didn't hurt so theirs defenitly a problem. I've been to the doctor and their stumped and can't do anything for me. Good luck with it man
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Same problem too! I am 21 and have been trying to find an answer. No problems with erection, and no problems climaxing on my own. Really embarassing to explain to my gfs why i cant climax. But there is one thing that i suspect: i have been masturbating pretty much since i found out i have a penis, i cant seem to stop... I suspect i have lost my sensitivity down there and i dont know what to do about it. I have tried stopping, believe me, and sometimes a i can go for a while w/o it but it still doesnt help. Maybe i need prolonged time away from my member lol. But maybe you have a similar problem? In either case if you discover anything plz post on this...
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Eazzy Lads! We all in the same boat.. 21 too... Same problem.. I dont know what to do about it, il go on for a hour or so, and then feel frustrated because shes had her multiple orgasms, but i havnt had one! .. I think i need a week or so refrainin from any sexual contact and hopefully it helps... Il keep u guys posted, anyone else with ideas? Please drop em in... Mr Super Stamina
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Woow i gues i´m not alone after all i´m 27 and i have the same problem i think my thingy is broken lol but it sucks really
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If Im like most of you guys, I favor watching some porn while wanking off....recent studies have shown that the masturbation itself isnt that bad for sex, but that the watching of porn make our mental expectations of sex change, and that the reality of sex with our partners become less significant than watching two pros gets it on

I favor oral myself,,,gets me off 97% off the time
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Guys. I don't know much about this problem. But I think u should stop masturbation at least 3 or 5 before having sex. Be sure to make urself not tired. I think this may be dut to insufficient stamina. masturbation and having sex is different. while masturbating, u have to use only ur hand. Having sex, different. using whole body, maintaining posture. These all will decrease ur sexual pleasure. U should try playing each other b4 having sex. U should try doggy style. It can save energy. During oral sex, she needs not only oral, a hand too. Oral and hand job at the same time will give u much more pleasure. During resting 5 days, most important, sleep well at night between 11 and 4. It will give u more strength. :P
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I would try abstaining from masturbation for about a week to see if that helps. If that doesn't help, you may have some psychological issue.
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im so glad i found this, its nice to know im not the only one
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You don't say what form of birth control that you use. If you use prophylactics for birth control, then that may be your problem, because prophylactics dull sensation. if you can't feel much then you may not be able to orgasm.
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