And now I’ve become worried. I was always worried because I was afraid as a virgin that when I finally had sex I wouldn’t be able to enjoy it as much and more importantly, not even finish. So I finally hooked up with a girl recently and lo and behold, I couldn’t finish it or even feel much. Granted, I had a condom on, but it was hardly as enjoyable as I expected. Obviously I didn’t finish.
We went 2 weeks without seeing each other after we first had sex, so in this two weeks I didn’t masturbate at all to see if I could let it “build up” to see if that would help. We did it 5 times, with me getting her off each time but I could not get there myself. Not even close. It felt warm and everything but it was hardly stimulating. Like I said before, condoms may have something to do with it too, but she’s even given me a blowjob and I didn’t get close to finishing.
She knows nothing about this. In fact, I’M the one who fakes the orgasm, and then I kind of hide my privates from her after we’re done and make my way to the bathroom. I’m very attracted to this girl and we have great chemistry. I do enjoy having sex with her for the most part; I just wish I could just get off during sex like a normal person. I want to do it so bad, it seems so amazing.
One obvious thing that certainly won’t hurt me is to stop masturbating like that already. But it’s really hard, because I want to get off often like every guy and I need to submit to doing it my way.
I'm pretty worried and I just hope I haven't done some type of permanent damage to my penis or something.
To be honest, it iis great to know that there are a lot of people who do it like me. I actually started doing it in that way when i was 9 or something. But i reversed my flaccid penis towards my balls and kindly sat on a couch's arm. It was way easier than normal one. But had more guilt than the normal one too. I also didn't know how the normal way was. I never watched porn, not like my friends, and didn't know how to masterbate the normal way. When i (somehow) learned how everyone did it, i tried to do it to see if i can. Well, it felt as good as our way. I did it three times that day. But i still do it in our way day by day. It started to make me really nervous about my future. Well now i see i'm not the only one with this problem. Honestly, i almost shed tears.
I developed this same problem when i was young, around 17 i starred to get really worried, i use to try to masturbate normally but could never climax or feel any sensation. I finally just got some porn and tried for hours to do it the normal way, to the point i pulled every muscle in my body i finally achieved it, it was hard mentally and physically
I developed this same problem when i was young, around 17 i starred to get really worried, i use to try to masturbate normally but could never climax or feel any sensation. I finally just got some porn and tried for hours to do it the normal way, to the point i pulled every muscle in my body i finally achieved it, it was hard mentally and physically
hi im 21 and I just figuerd out how to do it today! it took me like three hours though.
I had to force myself because I was afriad I would not turn out right. And relationships would go south. I already have problems with women.
I had or have the condition called Traumatic Masturbation Syndrome- its pretty much where you masterbate using an object along with your body wieght to ejaculate(you use almost anything but your hands). Im gland to because I actually scared my penis by rubbing it agianst a teddy bear.
OH MY GOD. I am almost exactly the same however my method is kinda even worse. When completely flaccid I would insert my index finger into my uncircumcised tip of my penis (the area that the skin folds over the top) the motion would push onto my flaccid penis head. I would then quite rapidly move my finger in all directions from left to right and then in a up and down motion while I humped my bed imagining f*****g someone.This gave me the best orgasm's ever! but the actual amount of cum was very limited. I have been doing this since I was five when I first humped the carpet and came really quickly. I am 18 now but I have slowly changed the method. I know use the normal "fisting" method of just generic jerking off motion however it doesnt feel as good but it produces large amount of cum. However the best method I now have is like the first one just that instead of humping the bed or floor I can sit up right on my back and watch porn while doing the same motion with my flaccid penis just inside my pants and underwear but my penis needs to stay flaccid and needs to be in my pants and underwear so I get a feeling of tightness. This still to this day gets me of not only the quickest literally knocking of 15minutes of the total time it takes to cum but it also feels better than any other method. I dont know what it but the insertion of my index finger into the foreskin area covering the head just feels amazing. And now i move the finger around even faster and it feels amazing. I am not sure if I can do this due to have a really small flaccid penis, I am only 1.5.inches flaccid but 5.6inches hard. However this technique of the index finger and either humping or just moving the finger around almost as if i am fingering myself while watching porn is so good. I know it sounds odd but hey if you want further explanation just let me know cause I know it sounds confusing :)
i guess i am late,but still
i too have same problem,its called prone masterbating or Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome (TMS)
i had this problem,but i overcome it
i have other problem as well i.e porn induced ED
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Hey i did it what the the easiest way is 2 masterbait once u start humping the ground before u climax qucikly get on your knees and start wackin it like crazy then it will trick your brain then i came.Im trying the traditional way and to be honest it feels good im 21 and been doing this since i was 13. Now my first time in sex i couldn't even insert my penis in the vagina but i thought it was 8 hours ago i masterbaited plus i f**k in the car my best bet dont masterbait for awhile till all you can think is to masterbait then just stroke or pretend your on the floor doing it just make sure you keep at it and dont cheat by going back once you keep at it precum will come out then eventually Bam!!.