My wife and I regularly masturbate in each others company. Sometimes I do it in my chair in living room which she is on the sofa reading paper. She does not mind.
don't worry about it, it's healthy,i'm 49 married and have a great sex life with my wife and i still masturbate at least 3 times a week it's great for releaving stress and relaxing.
I've enjoyed reading all of these posts! I am 51, divorced for almost 10 years, and have been masturbating on a regular basis since I was in my teens. Sometimes it's several times a day (with no other sexual outlet at this time it is a great release) and at other times it may be only once a week. Obviously we all have different needs, desires, and drives at different times in our lives and masturbation is a great way for men (and women!) to enjoy themselves solo and with their mate. Talking with healthcare workers in nursing homes I have come to learn that for a large number of men erections continue into our 80's and 90's and so does the urge to masturbate. Go for it guys; and women, give your man a hand! (and yourself, too...) XD
You know health care workers in nursing homes?
I've often wondered about that and what they do about it. Do they make sure guys and gals who want to masturbate have the opportunity and what about invalids who would need assistance, do they actually help them? I'm sure they wouldn't want to talk about it much or make it known publicly but it must be a problem they have to deal with.
My mother was in a nursing home for 10 years and there were several young people in there due to accidents and such. I didn't think it was a problem for my mother as she was in her 90s but the young girl in her 20s and the guy in his 30s must have wanted some kind of relief and both of them were incapable of doing it themselves. I couldn't help but wonder if the staff assisted them in any way.
I've often wondered about that and what they do about it. Do they make sure guys and gals who want to masturbate have the opportunity and what about invalids who would need assistance, do they actually help them? I'm sure they wouldn't want to talk about it much or make it known publicly but it must be a problem they have to deal with.
My mother was in a nursing home for 10 years and there were several young people in there due to accidents and such. I didn't think it was a problem for my mother as she was in her 90s but the young girl in her 20s and the guy in his 30s must have wanted some kind of relief and both of them were incapable of doing it themselves. I couldn't help but wonder if the staff assisted them in any way.
I'm 50 and I masturbate regularly. At least a few times a week. I'm married and we have a great sex life. I know my wife has caught me a few times, she doesn't say much about it. I've caught her too. It's great release, since your partner isn't always going to be ready for sex.
I am 87 years old and I still masturbate! Of course with Viagra, but you know!
I am married, 66 and I have masturbated regularly since I was about 13 even when my wife was still interested in sex as she did not want sex as often as I did.
Nowadays I am down to about 4 to 6 times a week - although my libido is still fairly high.
I wish my wife could be involved sometimes as I think we all need some sort of sexual contact even if it is only masturbation.
I think my wife feels as you do - I should have grown out of it by now, but as you see from the replies here, there are lots of men who need to and enjoy masturbating into a good old age.
So try to talk to him and let him enjoy his sexual pleasure, and even get involved with his masturbation - I am sure he would love you even more if you did.
Great to read all the posts! Im from Brazil, 34 years old.
My wife too doesnt like when I masturbate.
She needs sex once every 10 days on average.
When it happens its great, and I enjoy very much.
If I could, I would have sex at least 3 times a day. If I insist on sex, she makes it clear that she is doing it as an obligation, it tends do depress me more then be joyfull.
As she cant keep up with me, and for a while I wont to look for sex out of marriage, I masturbate at least 2 times a day, if I can avoid her presence.
My wife too doesnt like when I masturbate.
She needs sex once every 10 days on average.
When it happens its great, and I enjoy very much.
If I could, I would have sex at least 3 times a day. If I insist on sex, she makes it clear that she is doing it as an obligation, it tends do depress me more then be joyfull.
As she cant keep up with me, and for a while I wont to look for sex out of marriage, I masturbate at least 2 times a day, if I can avoid her presence.
I'm 54. Married, masturbate daily, unless know having sex that day. Have 2 girlfriends.
I was married twice. First for 5 years and then for 20 years. In the beginning the sex was great. But as time went on it was less and less. Ask any married man is this normal and he'd begrudgingly say yes.
Men who get married have convinced themselves that it's time and sex will not be an issue. But we learn in a hurry just how far from the truth that is. After that we realize what we've gotten ourselves into; then it's sink or swim.
The faithful man ( the one you have) masturbates; thinking it's just a phase. A phase you're going through. Could it be mental-pause? (often confused with menopause)! Was it something he said or did that made you use the lack of sex as punishment? (A lot of women do that).
After we've been completely alienated from the "Eden" we once knew and loved; then what? Eventually the faithful man questions himself. He asks himself why he continues to remain faithful to a woman who has no regard for him. Whether you realize it or not the marriage died the day you said "No". So you should be happy that he chooses to masturbate rather than have a well deserved affair...
Women are insecure. Not because someone long ago took advantage of them; but rather because deep down inside they know that they did not do whatever it took to keep their man happy. Men don't require much to be happy. If the woman we've chosen to spend the rest of our life with is a "Lady in the streets and a Freak in the sheets" that pretty much sums it up...
But I've heard women say: "Now that I'm married I don't have to do that any more... (how sad)... Treat the man right and in most cases he will treat you right as well... There are no guarantees in this life... If he didn't treat you well; I would not be sharing my thoughts with you now... The only reason men break their backs in making as much money as we can is to be able to satisfy every little whim our woman will have... And in most cases that money isn't made at home... So if you have no intentions of treating him the way you need to be treated don't complain; set him free...
Life is shorter when you're unhappy.....:'(
yes masterbation normal at 50 r you thare all time beter to masterbate or f**k round ?
I will be 70 in 5 months and have been divorced now for 15 years. I masturbate on a regular basis because I do not have sexual relations with anyone since my wife left me. I find that masturbation is both a physical and emotional benefit.
I'm fast approaching 50 and I'm relieved to hear that i'm not alone in still masturbating.
I find it helps me get to sleep if my mind is still active
I'll be 72 in 2 months and I still enjoy it 2 or 3 times a week but there are times when I may go a week or 2 without doing it. I feel better afterward both emotionally and physically, as you said. It does the same for me as sex used to do for my wife. She was always much easier to live with for several days after I gave her some good sex. We no longer have sex the same way we used to because she just doesn't want anything inside her, not even my fingers. Of course that probably saves me a lot of money that would be spent on Viagra. However, making sure I give her some good orgasms by hand works just as well.
Oh yeah, I don't need to have an erection to masturbate either. It works just as well soft. Of course I can't wrap my hand around it, I use a couple fingers and it still feels great. Even though it's soft, I get that wonderful feeling from stretching the inner foreskin back as tight as I can get it. It still responds nicely to stretching.
Some day I may ask my doctor's nurse for some Viagra samples just to see if I can get an erection for masturbating. I kind of miss being able to wrap my fist around it to rub and stretch the inner foreskin all around it and being able to squeeze the glans all around while rubbing it.
I sometimes get an almost erection in the morning and I often wonder if I had a younger girl for a partner or one who really wanted sex, if that would make a difference in the ability to get one.
Oh yeah, I don't need to have an erection to masturbate either. It works just as well soft. Of course I can't wrap my hand around it, I use a couple fingers and it still feels great. Even though it's soft, I get that wonderful feeling from stretching the inner foreskin back as tight as I can get it. It still responds nicely to stretching.
Some day I may ask my doctor's nurse for some Viagra samples just to see if I can get an erection for masturbating. I kind of miss being able to wrap my fist around it to rub and stretch the inner foreskin all around it and being able to squeeze the glans all around while rubbing it.
I sometimes get an almost erection in the morning and I often wonder if I had a younger girl for a partner or one who really wanted sex, if that would make a difference in the ability to get one.
What if you know he's doing and he lies about it. Meaning you see him in the bed but yet again, he still denies it.