masturbating at age 50 years

I am 67 and have masturbated regularly since I was a teenager. Now I must admit in the last couple of years my frequency has gone down to 4 or 5 times a week but as my wife has gone off sexual contact of any sort this is my only sexual outlet.

I used to worry that I was abnormal but after looking on the internet its nice to know that there are lots of other men who masturbate regularly just like me.

I just did a Real age sexual test and it said my sexual health age was 42!!!!! - I think that regular masturbation helps to keep the sxual organs working well - I dont have any trouble getting an erection although its not as hard as it used to be and I can still ejaculate even if it takes a bit longer and I dont shoot my cum as far as I did.

So let your man enjoy his masturbation and realise that its keeping him in good shpe!

encougage your man to masturbate if he he is over 50. Most likely he is thinking about you in one your special moments together

Yes - I agree that you should encourage your man to masturbate - it will keep him in good sexual health and also keep him happy - even if you are having good sex together, he will still enjoy a good masturbation session occasionally.

However, I think most men when they wank, think of sexy young women rather than their wives- especially as they get older and have a harder time cumming.

Why not join him and have a mutual session - as you get older I think its more important to have some hugging and cuddling which you can get from masturbating together, even if you dont proceed to full sexual intercourse.

My wife tries to ignore my sexual needs so I have to masturbate for relief, but I would feel so much closer to her if she would maybe just say " I know I dont want sex but why dont you go and enjoy a good wank to relieve your tension dear?"

I'm 72 and I have to do it myself because my wife will not do it for me. If I could get her to do it for me I would never want to do it myself providing she was willing to learn how to do it so it's feels good but she has no interest in figuring that out. When I have been able to get her to try she just pulls on it like milking a cow and refuses to do it any differently. Of course that's only about a half dozen times in the 45 years we've been married.

You have tell your wife very nicely how to do the hand job.

You have to reslove this matter by discussing this issue.

I have seen Porn Movies where young Nude Gilrls apply lotion on the Penis of elderly Male. Then they will do the act till they get Ejaculation.

I do not know whether wife will evince interest in watching Porn movies.



Anyway the matter will be have to be settled with mutual consultation with wife and their Husbands.

Thats easier said than done! - Getting your wife to do a good ha****b!!!!!!! - Id rather do it myself and enjoy it - I can do it while I watch some good sexy videos on the internet and go as fsat or as slow as I like until I want to shoot my load - then I am in masturbation heaven as I wank myself with just the right amount of pressure and speed as my juices spurt forth

A half century ago I had a gf who loved to give me h@nd job$. When I went to pick her up, as soon as she got in the car she unzipped my pants and took charge of my penis. It was HERS and she made sure it got all the attention it could stand. She was intensely interested in what felt good and made it respond best. She loved to see me jerk around and scream when she worked on the super sensitive tip as I came. I never asked her how she learned about that sensation, I was just thankful she was that interested.

On the other hand, my wife doesn't even want to touch "that thing". It's kind of funny because before we were married she didn't mind playing with it but I guess I just interpretted the poor performance as lack of experience. After we were married that all changed. She did not want to touch it and would not touch it. It was my job to please her and getting to stick it inside her while I came was all the pleasure I should need.

After we had been married about 15 years the popular talk show subject was recovery of repressed memories and she miraculously recovered memories of her father abusing her. That wasn't a surprise to me because for years whatever the popular psycho-babble on TV was for the day, she determined that our whole family was afflicted with it. That became the reason (excuse) why she didn't like to touch my penis which has lasted to this day.

We do see porn vids of girls giving wonderful h@nd job$ so we know a girl is capable of learning, just like some of us guys have been interested enough to learn how to make a pu$$y scream. I've certainly gotten enjoyment out of learning how to do her to the max but it would really be nice to get a little in return. It would feel soooo good if she would just hold my b@lls lovingly when we're in bed at night, but that ain't gonna happen.

Oh enjoynlife! - your wife sounds just like mine - doesnt even like me mentioning sex of any sort now ( I am 67 and she is 60) - she doesnt cuddle or hug me even though I try to be gentle and loving towards her.

Just like you, we had a good sex life before marriage and it wasnt too bad for the first few years (although I always wanted more than she did).

So after the kids came along our sex life dwindled to about once a month and now it is non existent. I am so grateful for the internet - its so much better than masturbating over tame girlie magazines.



I agree that it would be so nice to go to bed and just have my wife run her hands over my naked body and play with my penis occasionally, but it only happens once in a blue moon.



So I rely on solo satisfaction like you - I am trembling right now because I have an hour to myself and I am going to have a lovely naked session in front of the computer - must go because I am getting aroused already - its been about 3 days so I am really looking forward to it.



Great to talk to someone else who has the same problems as me - Thanks

I am 58 and like others masturbate as my wife has little interest in sex. She likes me to do it in bed while she can watch or encourage me, and occasionally give a helping hand. Equally when she is absent (like today) I masturbated thinking of her as I still fantasies about her. I will twell her I have done it when we go to bed and no doubt she will encourage me to do it again (withe less mess)

yes it is normal .i'm 60 and still masturbate.
i know men in their70s and into heir 80s that still masturbate.

Thats great to think that I will still be able to masturbate into my 80's - I just hope my libido will still be there and I can get an erection.

The one thing I do miss about masturbating now is that I no longer 'spurt' semen, it tends to dribble out and does so for quite a while after the sensation of orgasm has gone. Any tips for older men please?

Yes James, thats what I miss too - I would love to return to my younger days when masturbation would climax with a good spurt or even several spurts ((sometimes going where you didnt want it to and requiring a quick clean up job).

Tips? - I have read that drinking plenty fluids helps but I thinnk its just one of those things we have to acept as we get older.

However, I do find that sometimes if I abstain for a few days (very difficult for me) and have a really sexy masturbating session taking a long time with a lot of building up , stopping then continuing, then when I do cum it occasionally surprises me and I have shot my cum about 9 or 10 inches. Oh for those days hwen it shot 3 or 4 feet !

I miss that too but you live with what you have. I'm 72 and masturbate several times a week but it's not what it used to be. I haven't seen an erection in years but it still climaxes even though it's soft ---- and tiny.

My only worry is that it seems to keep getting smaller, so will it reach the point where I need to adapt a pair of tweezers to do the job?

Since my wife has become a real turn off in a mental sort of way I have often wondered if I would be able to get an erection if I was with a woman who does like sex and turns me on. I guess I will never know the answer to that as I'm not interested in cheating. I do suspect that the apparatus may still work though because I was having a wonderful dream a few weeks ago and woke up to find a rather decent erection. That was the first one I've experienced in over 10 years and I figured it was surely dead by now.

I'm almost ready to ask my doctor's office girl for a Viagra sample to see if I can have a good masturbation session with something to actually wrap my hand around.

Of course I no longer spurt but a little does dribble out, I guess. I don't watch it because I put a sock on it to catch the mess.

I'm not circumcised but I pull my foreskin all the way back tight so I can rub the whole inner surface of it and rub my dry head between my thumb and forefinger for all the peasure that gives. Then when I'm ready to climax I put on the sock but I still hold the foreskin all the way back tight so the sock can slide up and down over the bare head for a little better feeling of friction while rubbing it.

The climax is still quite enjoyable and squeezing the head between my fingers as I come adds considerable pleasure even though it's like squeezing a marshmallow.

Nice to know you can still enjoy a good wank even though you are soft njoynlife.

If you can have a decent erection in your dreams then maybe there is something phsycological stopping you - as you say maybe a sexy woman could get you nice and hard - if not then why noy try Viagra - I havent yet as I still can get erections although they are not as big or as hard as they used to be.

As for size, I have days when it looks quite small but other days (usually when its warmer) when it looks a raesonable size.

I also find that in the summer if I dont wear underwear and let it hang free, I am sure it stretches a bit and looks more impressive - or maybe going commando makes me turned on and it is semi-swollen. On those occasions I usually cant wait to get a quiet moment to have a good masturbation session.

Anyway, njoynlife, keep enjoying what you do - let us know if  you try the Viagra and what it does for you.