Midlife virgin masturbation, what is the best way to explain it to someone

Hi Angemi

That depends on why you want to explain it, and how the question has arisen, your relationship to that woman, and your own age.

1. Has she asked you to explain it? If so, what led to the question?
2. Have you decided by yourself that you ought to explain it? If so, what led you to that conclusion?
3. How old are you? What is the relationship between you?
4. Are you considering explaining
   1. just the concept of masturbation?
   2. the actual methods of masturbation?
   3. or both concept and method?

The fact that she is a virgin doesn't necessarily mean she has never masturbated at all, but the answers to the above questions would help determine the best approach.