Yea ihope it doesnt!!! But thanks for your help Bambi27
Hey bambi (: I havent gone (and can't go) because my mom is paranoid, and so am I. I''m still worried about being pregnant and I'm quite scared to go to the gyno, but also because I feel like I'm not. I know this is a stupid reason and I should probably go anyway, but I'm just hoping I'm not pregnant..
By the way...Say I had SEX on the 14th, and myperiod is supposed to come on the 15th. If I did get pregnant, would my period be missed because I got pregnant the day before, or could it be stress? I hope you get what I'm asking. Can I be pregnant and miss my period 1 day after, or would it come anywya?
Still no period, and after reading week by week symptoms online, I'm quite worried.. I always have waves of "theres no way, i should chill" and "but.. what if?!?!".
Sorry but here's another senario...
If he touched his penis over his boxers just to move it, and there was precum on his penis, do you think there could have been sperm that went through the boxers? That got on his hand? That transferred and made its way through my panties, if I was wet and possibly wet my panties(say he rubbed me over panties with the same hand right after adjusting his penis), and made its way through there and swam up?
I'm sure you're sick of reassuring irresponsible people with every senario possible, but if you could, please help :\
By the way...Say I had SEX on the 14th, and myperiod is supposed to come on the 15th. If I did get pregnant, would my period be missed because I got pregnant the day before, or could it be stress? I hope you get what I'm asking. Can I be pregnant and miss my period 1 day after, or would it come anywya?
Still no period, and after reading week by week symptoms online, I'm quite worried.. I always have waves of "theres no way, i should chill" and "but.. what if?!?!".
Sorry but here's another senario...
If he touched his penis over his boxers just to move it, and there was precum on his penis, do you think there could have been sperm that went through the boxers? That got on his hand? That transferred and made its way through my panties, if I was wet and possibly wet my panties(say he rubbed me over panties with the same hand right after adjusting his penis), and made its way through there and swam up?
I'm sure you're sick of reassuring irresponsible people with every senario possible, but if you could, please help :\
Sorry but.. here's another one. When I do situps, I notice the abs are a little round, like they aren't flat, but instead its a bump of muscle. It's like this for where the belly button is too, and a little bit under. Is it usually like that? When you flex shouldn't your belly be flat, not round? Is that a pregnancy bump or something?...
(about halfway into the sit up, 45 degree angle?)
Hi Mimioreo! You are NOT pregnant honey there is NO way you are ZIP NADA Etc. I don't understand why your mom and yourself don't go to the gynecologist!? I am pretty sure you have a VERY COMMON ovarian cyst - which is VERY treatable the sooner you get there the sooner you can find out what is going on and not be worrying so much! Why doesn't your mom want you to go!!!! ? %-)
With regards to the 1day before the period - 1st of all you would have to be ovulating - where most women ovulate 14 days after the 1st day of their period (but this changes due to stress, hormones, pills, illness etc) so this would not be enough time for your brain to get the memo that you conceived! IT takes 3 days after the sperm reaches the egg to have conception - so the brain would have already sent out the hormones to start the period!
Also when youa re doing situps the small bump will probably be from a cyst or just water retention! You had fondling in Febuary that is over 4 months ago - believe me you would KNOW if you were pregnant at over 4 months gestationally pregnant and 3 months in Fetal development! So PLEASE relax and tell your mom to take you to the doctors, this is silly to be waiting this long when there is NO WAY you are pregnant! It's impossible!
With regards to the 1day before the period - 1st of all you would have to be ovulating - where most women ovulate 14 days after the 1st day of their period (but this changes due to stress, hormones, pills, illness etc) so this would not be enough time for your brain to get the memo that you conceived! IT takes 3 days after the sperm reaches the egg to have conception - so the brain would have already sent out the hormones to start the period!
Also when youa re doing situps the small bump will probably be from a cyst or just water retention! You had fondling in Febuary that is over 4 months ago - believe me you would KNOW if you were pregnant at over 4 months gestationally pregnant and 3 months in Fetal development! So PLEASE relax and tell your mom to take you to the doctors, this is silly to be waiting this long when there is NO WAY you are pregnant! It's impossible!
Hi Bambi
Fondling was on valentines day, February. It's been three months, maybe that's why I'm starting to get paranoid about how my belly looks.
I don't want to go YET. I feel like if you go and just MAYBE if I am pregnant, all hell will break loose. Lol..
She finally gave in and said she would take me, but I said to wait until my period comes.
As for the bump, it's not a small bumb.. it's like the abs, the whole section, rises up and becomes round. So when I do situps and look at my stomache it goes from a flat shape to an arch, and that section of muscle or whtaver is like half of a cylinder all the way to where my pubic hair is.
Something like this...
I'm sorry if this is stupid or if you have no idea...
:-) = head. -- = shoulder/chest. || = stomach and abs. < = legs.
(situp position)
It goes from
:-)--||< to :-)--((<
See the ( is round? It bumbs up. ...I'm sorry, this is stpuid, I know..
Fondling was on valentines day, February. It's been three months, maybe that's why I'm starting to get paranoid about how my belly looks.
I don't want to go YET. I feel like if you go and just MAYBE if I am pregnant, all hell will break loose. Lol..
She finally gave in and said she would take me, but I said to wait until my period comes.
As for the bump, it's not a small bumb.. it's like the abs, the whole section, rises up and becomes round. So when I do situps and look at my stomache it goes from a flat shape to an arch, and that section of muscle or whtaver is like half of a cylinder all the way to where my pubic hair is.
Something like this...
I'm sorry if this is stupid or if you have no idea...
:-) = head. -- = shoulder/chest. || = stomach and abs. < = legs.
(situp position)
It goes from
:-)--||< to :-)--((<
See the ( is round? It bumbs up. ...I'm sorry, this is stpuid, I know..
When I say 4 months it means gestational it is from the 1st day of your LAST period! Have you told your mom what has happened? If you have she WILL tell you that there is NO WAY you are pregnant! BUT if you have said "There might be a possibility" then of course she will be freaking out! So get tested - IF you don't want to get help at the gynecologist take a pregnancy test - this will show you what is happening - as it will be 4 months on and there is NO mistake with the test this far along!
Thing is, I wasn't supposed to even be doing what I was doing. I feel like every day I'm getting more freaked because my belly is fat (I naturally have a bigger belly than most girls...) and when I take pictures of it they look like those of pregnant women that I see online. By this, I mean it's kind of pointy and it's fattest at my belly button
Ok, I know I'm probably exaggerating this way too much and I shouldnt worry, and this probably isn't the most wanted topic on this board right now, but I'm freaking out quite a lot. It's technically been 22 weeks and too late for an abortion, ASSUMING I really am...
When I do situps there's a lump that goes across my abs when there shouldnt be (i think) ....
When I do situps there's a lump that goes across my abs when there shouldnt be (i think) ....
As I mentioned about the situps, at the 45 degree angle, where my belly fat usually stops below the belly button is this firm round ball-like thing (I'm flexing), but it's not just a round ball, it stays that width and goes up do below my brests, so its like a long oval. is that just muscle or am i really being over paranoid
Before you reply.. I wanted to say thanks and SORRY for freaking out and multiposting over and over again. I always get these days or hours where I freak out, then i'm totally fine again. I still tellmyself it's impossible that I'm pregnnat, and i KNOW thers almost 0 chance, but there's that "what if" that totally kilsl me...
but if you canstill answer my questions XD
but if you canstill answer my questions XD
Honey! Since it would be 22 weeks, you would have about a 1 lb baby, and it would be kicking and turning, you would see the baby rolling over in your stomach NOT just a little bump! There is this thing called "hysterical Pregnancy" It means that you get SO freaked out about either being pregnant or NOT being pregnant, that you actually can gain weight, you can have the EXACT same symptoms of pregnancy - even worried fathers have been known to get this too!
I am concerned about 1 thing with you, your freaking out about this! Do you think you suffer from anxiety or depression? Or even Hypochondria? As a young girl - like yourself - shouldn't be freaking out this much about something that is impossible! What do you think about that!
I am concerned about 1 thing with you, your freaking out about this! Do you think you suffer from anxiety or depression? Or even Hypochondria? As a young girl - like yourself - shouldn't be freaking out this much about something that is impossible! What do you think about that!
I think I MIGHT have small anxiety... My mom tells me I worry too much (belive me, it takes after her), which and I think I stress out easily, but its usually due to school, due dates, and maybe little sleep and just worrying about small things. But I odn't know if I'm "bad" enough to be actually diagnosed with anxiety. I just stress/freak out over small things more than my friends do. The other day i completely paniced when my bf's dad came over to have his reading done, and he asked me if i knew his son, since we both went to the same school. my dad reads "astrology" as a hobby, and his dad came with a friend or something. He doesn't know his son has a gf, and i completely freaked out when my dad asked me if his son was the same guy as the one who came over (IN FRONT OF HIM!) Yeah... I ran to school to tell my friend and she told me i'm worrying for nothing.
(and well... it's only been 13 weeks) I don't know how I counted 22 weeks... if it was 22 weeks i agree, I'd DEFINITELY know. Maybe because it's just at that part where the belly starts to get bigger and stuff.
I've heard about the hystarical thing too, except technically I got the symptoms before, and now I'm just reading too much into it and wondering if i could have been pregnant all along...
when I reread my posts i'm completely embarrassed and laugh at myself for being so stupid, but then sometimes i really do panic and freak out....
(and well... it's only been 13 weeks) I don't know how I counted 22 weeks... if it was 22 weeks i agree, I'd DEFINITELY know. Maybe because it's just at that part where the belly starts to get bigger and stuff.
I've heard about the hystarical thing too, except technically I got the symptoms before, and now I'm just reading too much into it and wondering if i could have been pregnant all along...
when I reread my posts i'm completely embarrassed and laugh at myself for being so stupid, but then sometimes i really do panic and freak out....
Can cramps happen right where the vagina is, above, or even a little as if it were inside? I felt it today, and I guess i'm still a little freaked because I looked it up and it was a pregnancy sypmtom... but can they? I've been experiencing cramps for maybe a week now, and thse past few months they seem to come a few days before my period is supposed to come (making me anticipate it..)
I've also started experiencing bloating since last night at 12 midnight... My stomach gets either really bloated or gassy and i have to keep burping so i don't feel pain, but it's tight in my lower abdomenal area and when i press anywhere from breast down it feels really uncormfortable. I used to get this, and it always ended in either throwing up once or throwing up and experiencing stomach flu/food poisoning symptoms. What could this be...? Last night what I ate different was an in and out meal.. but that was at 4 pm or so, then a little bit of home made popcorn at 8pm. I felt this this morning at 10 (tuna sandwich for breakfast) and around 4-5 (orange chicken, noodles, strawberry milk).
Do you happent o know what this is? Or could it be another "symptom" of pregnancy... or I heard this also happens when you miss your period?
(sorry for so many questions in a row... I thought about it and even if he touched himself, i realized after he took his hands out of his pants he must have wiped it on his jeans or something before touching me, even so, I'm still a little paranoid about that "what if...")
Do you happent o know what this is? Or could it be another "symptom" of pregnancy... or I heard this also happens when you miss your period?
(sorry for so many questions in a row... I thought about it and even if he touched himself, i realized after he took his hands out of his pants he must have wiped it on his jeans or something before touching me, even so, I'm still a little paranoid about that "what if...")