I'M A 47 YEAR OLD MALE, THAT HAVE A GUARDIAN, I NEED AND LUV TO HAVE MASSAGES, MY ACUPUNTURE THERAPIST HAS RECOMMENDED THAT I SHOULD GET MASSAGES, IN PAST ACUPUNTURE TREATMENTS, BUT MY GUARDIAN WILL ONLY LET A MALE MASSAGE THERAPIST DO A MASSAGE ON ME!!! MY QUESTON IS...AS LONG IT'S MY MONEY AND I'M PAYING FOR THE SERVICES, SHOULDN'T HAVE A SAY ON WHO DOES THE MASSAGES??