I'm 15 I've had a late puberty my breasts started to grow only when I was 13 and they hurt at the beginning than the pain disappeared but they also seemed to have stopped growing. For the last 3 or 4 months my areolas and especially my nipples have been very tender to the point that every bra or tshirt hurts. I'd like to go topless at least at home but my parents said no and they also want me to wear a bra all the time. I take off the bra as soon as possible (as soon as they can't notice it) but how can I convince them to go topless?
Do you have brothers? For that was the reason my parents wouldnt allow me to go topless for exactly the same reason. I wanted to go topless at the beginning when they started growing because they hurt but they forced me to cover up. Just like you I took off my bra whenever possible but that was all I could do.
No I only have a sister, she's 11 and entering puberty. My parents are concerned in general about a "proper" household, that's all.
I know all about it lol. During puberty I had the same sensation and the same wish but my parents were striclty opposed to nudity at home. On the other hand taking off my bra didn't relieve me completely for there was still the tshirt or blouse or whatever brushing against my nipples but it was better than without a bra and sometimes the tshirt didn't hurt so much but provoked a very nice feeling lol. Anyway when I arrived at school I went to the bathroom and took off my bra and when I left I put it on again. I didn't have very visible nipples at the beginning so I remained quite decent even if they were mostly hard of course. A friend lived with her mother and she was very open about being topless so I could at least take off erverything at her place where I stayed quite often. But if your parents are agains it I dont see how you could convince them.